Sex question for guys?

Imagine you met a girl and wanted to have sex. Would you be turned off if she was a virgin?

It depends on what age I was when this happened. From 15-23, I don't think it would have made much difference one way or the other. After that, however, I think I've lost the perspective necessary to provide the proper emotional support to a recently deflowered virgin.

It might be stereotypical to say, but it's certainly been my experience virgins do tend to get more emotionally involved with the act of sex than non-virgins, and that's not a responsibility I'd want to take on at this point in my life.

Besides, if they think the sex is bad, you've got THAT hanging over your head for the rest of your/their life. "Great, you took my virginity and it sucked. Thanks so much."

It's only a turn off to one type of guy... A dog who is only looking for sex in the first place. D*ckheads will see you as a conquest to boast about to their mates, but decent guys will at worst not be bothered, and at best think it's great. It's possibly a turn off for a one-night stand, but not for a relationship.

Im 17 years old and a virgin and I dont want to wait until I am married. Just wondering on your general idea

angelfire, to sum up the entire male gender as "decent guys" and "dickheads" is sexist at best and hideously insulting at worst. Men (mostly) don't walk around talking about women as "potential wives" and "sluts."

And to suggest that every decent guy will not be bothered by a woman's virginity is just as dangerously simplistic as saying a decent guy will not be bothered by the fact that his date has slept with 250 people. Sex is always going to factor into the decisions regarding a mature relationship, and to suggest otherwise just because a man isn't a dickhead is hopelessly naive.

mikeh, I'd APPRECIATE if you wouldnt make comments about what I say. I didnt SUM UP anything about the male gender. If you read my post, you would have noticed its said "ONE TYPE OF GUY" I wasnt referring to ALL men! Basically there are the "dickheads", and the "decent" guys. Trust me, I have TONS of male friends, and they would agree with me. They tell me all the time how guys are, and I have eyes and can actually see it for myself! Maybe you are just...GAY!

Not to come off as overly cruel, but posting subjective opinions on a public forum and expecting people not to comment on them simply because you disagree with them isn't particularly realistic. If you wish to remain anonymous, of course, so you don;t feel you are being singled out, there is the option to do so.

Back to the issue -- I think this is why daniellem originally posted this "for guys." Males would have personal experience wrestling with the issue of whether or not to have sex with virgins, as I have. angelfire is getting her information third- and forth-hand. Again, I'm not trying to pick on one person in particular, but it's a narrow view of men and not one that's going to be readily applicable to real-life dating experience.

Lastly, I'm sorry to do it, but I had to report the abuse on calling me "gay." I don't think it was called for as I did nothing to impugn your character.

I'm a girl and I can honestly say, that every guy I have talked to has stopped talking to me because I am a virgin. They ask if I am, I say yes, and that's the end of it. One of them did tell me that he doesn't want to take a girls virginity because she will get sprung, or attached to him, not to mention she'll remember him for the rest of her life. But I guess it does depend on the type of guy you're talking to.

You are VERY arrogant, and rude.