Sex question

does it really hurt really bad cause I want to do it but I am scared

Instead of jumping down your throat, I will actually answer your question.
If you are well lubricated, and your partner takes it slow and gentle at the beginning, it shouldnt hurt at all. If it does tell him immediately! Sex is meant for pleasure, not pain.

Always use protection, and the more forms of protection you use the better protected you will be.

~Tiffany~

one how old are you? I see 13 if so omg WAIT!!! your not ready for anything like that...protection does not always work..gettign pregnant I know I was pregnant at 16..then you have stds AIDS for godsakes...have you seen someone die of aids?? wait till your 18!

I agree with Tiffany, but hun don't rush into anything to fast, because if you do you could really regret it later on okay. Be careful, and use protection, make sure your with someone you trust alright.

The most important thing is that you feel ready. It'll hurt a lot more if you aren't cause you'll be too tensed up and you'll hate yourself afterwards. Always use protection. Condoms provide mild lubrication and a barrier so no pregnancies or STIs. Yes it'll hurt. Go slowly, and don't be afraid to tell them to stop, it is YOUR body after all. The pain can be very bad, depending on many things, but if you love the person and trust them, it'll all feel worth it. Although, one of my friends barely felt the lost of her virginity, so that may be the case for you