Why is there so much peer pressure?

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If you have ANY doubt in your mind AT ALL, don't do it.
I know you are tired of hearing "your way to young", but its the truth!
If you have sex now you are going to regret it, and if you already have had sex, stop. Its for your own good. I'm not saying sex with for sure ruin your life, but it sure as hell can!
If friends are pressuring you about anything you need to tell them its your life and to look after their own. And if any guy is pressuring you to have sex you need to tell him to back off. If he is pressuring you to have sex, you are probley being used, actually, you ARE being used. Nobody that loves you is going to pressure you into anything. If anyone FORCES sex upon you at any point, you need to talk to a counsellor and a police officer as soon as it happens.

Be smart about this, honestly, its not worth it. I was 14 and thought I was inlove just because I was dating the guy for a year. I let him take my virginity, and now I look back and wish I had people there telling me not to, but no, everyone that was around me told me to go for it ("friends". Think about your future.

I competely understand what your going through. There is so much pressure now compared to like 5 years ago to become sexually active. My friends are like that to. My advice is they may be worried about you maybe because they have boyfriends and you don't yet. But really it is kind of like a bragging thing to. All I hear from my friends is se*x is amazing etc. and you feel left out of the convo and then they try to get you invloved in it but really they try to make you jealous to. Don't listen to them honestly guys respect you so much more if you don't give into peer pressure of having a boyfriend for the heck of it and doing stuff with them. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm really happy although I'm only 16 but really it doesn't bother me and it shouldn't bother you. Just wait till you meet somebody who you actually like and are not pressured into liking. Anyways you seem like a smart person not to listen to your friends about things like that so I'm sure you'll figure it out anyways good luck!

I have a boyfriend and he's giving me pressure about it 2. I just dont think I want to do it yet. But there's a part of me that does. Advice?

I have a boyfriend and he's giving me pressure about it 2. I just dont think I want to do it yet. But there's a part of me that does. Advice?

I have a boyfriend and he's giving me pressure about it 2. I just dont think I want to do it yet. But there's a part of me that does. Advice?

because people cant think for themselves now a days, and want to be like everyone else, why ? I dont know. cause their nubes.

thanks! I was thinking the same things, but having them said by other people made a difference.

If there is any part of you that doubts having sex then say no to yourself and your boyfriend. He should appreciate that you don't want to if he loves you.

Good luck =]

xxx

I would also wait.. wait till you are complety ready I mean complety with no doubts... wait till you are in love with the guy.. that is just my feelings on the matter.. dont want to risk getting preg or std's..