I'm so worried about my first time!

I really want to have sex with my boyfriend I feel like I am really ready but I am so scared and I feel self concious (not that I am fat or anything just EVERYTHING else) I have given him oral sex and he wants to give it to me but I feel self concious...

about that I am also so so so scared about everything when it comes to sex (pain, smells, where to be at) anything can help right now I want to make my boyfriend feel as good as possible since we are both virgins.

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!
girl I am in the same situation as you! but Ive already found the solution and delt with the issue so ill tell you my very recent experience(yesterday this all happend) So my boyfriend wanted to eat me out, and Im 14 so I was kinda iffy about it, but i decided that I really like him and trust him so it shudnt be such a bd. So we where on his couch and like he was like please let me do it so finally was like ok, so i pulled down my pants and he went down there and was startin to do it he probally licked me like once, but then his sister came down stairs (shes 14 too, but her brother is 15) lucky for me she didnt see, but it was really really close. my point is that I was so so so nervous, but once he was down there it was like 'oh well its already happening, so i mise well enjoy it' He never did eat me out, but now I dont really care if he dose or not. right now hold off on the whole sex thing explore each others bodies a lil bit more so that its not so nerve racking when you actualy do decide to have sex. I hope I helped and feel free to fun mail me if you have any more questins!
3ty

Oral is a VERY intimate act for some partners. Sometimes even more so than intercourse. I mean face it (no pun intended!) your FACE is in someone's crotch! Of course there will be smells and tastes but that is all part of it.

Remember that although you may not be having sex, STDs can still be passed through oral. So proper use of protection is always a good idea!

Me and my boyfriend started out the same way. I would never do anything to him though because I was more or less afraid of getting caught. It s not the case anymore but anyway.....You're both virgins, so thats a plus. You can both learn everything together. I was totally afraid for my first time too. But what happened with me was that since he knew what he was doing, i just laid back and let him handle it. It kinda helps though, that right after your first time, that you do it another time or two so you can both get the feel of each other and explore a little bit. Its
I didnt hurt me. I could hardly feel anything because I think it was because I was concentrating more on oh my god is it gonna hurt me? I just laid there I was so nervous. But he made me comfortable and worthwhile.
I also felt a little guilty after we'd done it. Kind of ashamed because I'm a christian girl, and I felt that god was very disappointed with me, but I got over the guilt because anything can happen. Me and the same guy I first had sex with are about to become ingaged and in my case, it was one of the best things I'd ever done, because I really wanted to show him how much I loved him.
So don't worry too much or you'll go crazy. It depends on the girl. It may hurt a little, a lot, or not at all. It depends on your body.