Should we have sex or not?

ok me and this boy were in the band room closet(thats where we put are intruments) and like always his pants fell down and I said we wesley your pants are off please put them on and then he said come here so I was thinking he was going to have me put his Bari sax up on the shelf but then he grabed me and tried to kiss me and then he said well you want to see even more ill let you see I said if your playing around you need to stop and then he said Im not I still love you lets go to my house tonight and then I will make love to you what do I do??Do I go and do it with him or what ?I mean it will be are first times and I dont know if I want to I cant get pregnant!!!

It seems to me that you don't really 'like' him in that way...correct me if I'm wrong. It seems that he is just a horny teenager... Only have sex if you are in a loving and trusting relationship...and most important of all, when YOU are ready. Otherwise, it won't be special and you may regret it a lot.

^^ what the person above me said ^^

You sound very uncomfortable about the situation and even that scene. Don't do it! You WILL regret! He does just sound like a horny teenager who wants to get in your panties. Anyone who is really worth giving it up to will not come on to you like that. You may be a little excited and flattered but do know that if he's that comfortable to do that to you, he'd do it with plenty others as well. My personal opinion; the way he did that to you is very disrespectful and degrading.

Take care and if you do go through with it, hope you're on the pills and don't forget the rubber (condom).

You dont know if you should have sex with some boy because he drops his pants, said he still 'loved' you, and wants to have sex with you? You are a very confused, and naive young girl. If you want to find love Hun, your not going to find it by putting out to any boy that wants to have sex with you. Your not even in a relationship with him, so why would you even think about giving him what he wants? Start learning how to respect yourself, or nobody will!

id say go back to school and learn to write so people can read what you are trying to say

If your asking other people to make your decisions for you, honestly I don't think your mature enough to even be thinking about having sex. By asking this question 'should we have sex or not' shows me your not ready because your asking complete strangers to make a huge decision for you that will only effect you. So think hard about what YOU and ONLY YOU want to do.