How can i tell if i'm ready for sex?

so I've been dating this guy for a few weeks and I like him a whole lot
we're open and we've been discussing sex
I'm 15 and I'm a virgin
so I don't know if I'm really ready

how can I tell if I'm read physically and mentally?

I don't think you should do it unless you two have a serious relationship going on. First time is a memorable thing and you have to make sure the guy respects you like if you were to say STOP, you know FOR SURE he would really listen and stop. you should really TRUST the guy.

Based on the fact that you are asking this question indicates that you are not ready.

Also, you are a bit young to become involved in the responsibility of s3x.

Discussing sex after only being together for just a few weeks? That is NOT love! A relationship that starts out on a sexual level right away, does not last! Whats wrong with going to the movies together, hanging out with friends together, and just getting to know one another? If you are talking about sex already, thats all hes in it for! How will you feel after he dumps you, when he gets what he wants? Being used is not a good feeling! How do you even know how this boy truly feels about you? Sex will not make someone love, or commit to you. You might be learning things the hard way, but i guess thats a part of growing up! If this relationship crumbles, hopefully you will choose not to have sex so soon!

Heres my famous speech

I want you to think about your body as a valuable treasure - something priceless and rare and incredibly special. It should not be shared with just anyone who treats you nicely, even if you really like him. Rather, you should save that kind of intimate physical connection for a guy who proves by his actions over a LONG time - not just a few weeks, or couple of months - that he truly loves you and respects your feelings and wants to be together with you for the long-term.

How will you know if your BF loves you this way? You will see it in many ways... most importantly, that he will be patient with you setting a slow pace for sexual involvement. Generally, a boy who will care for you after sex is also a guy who will wait a long time for sex without pressuring you. A guy who loves you will treat you with respect, listen to your feelings, put you first in his life, be proud of including you in activities with his friends and family, cheer you up when you are down, and show his love in many other such ways.

Your teenage years bring a lot of changes in how you feel about yourself, family, friends and potential love interests - even if you don't think about sex. No matter what your feelings on sex are, it may be smart to wait until something feels right. And even then, it's a good idea to wait a month or two. If it's truly love, and it's meant to be, it will survive and even grow stronger without sex. If it isn't, then you will be really glad you waited and found that out, before you got intimately involved on a physical level.

yeah umm. he broke up with me last night cuz of something complicated. so i'm gald i didn't do anything past wat my comfort line was.