Sex, love, pain >.<

Okay so I have a question for both the females and the males. My question for the lady's is how bad does your first time hurt? Is it like getting your ears peirced painful? On a scale of 1-10? Im 17 and I love my boyfriend I just dont want him to leave...

me if Im not ready. I don't know if my hymen has broke yet of not. I masturbate with my fingers. To the guys: Would you leave your girlfriend if she didnt want to have sex right away?

It just depends on how your body is. But you will know if you hymen breaks. Its not as painful as you think. Your a virgin and your body is trying something new. Just wear protection.

good luck b
be safe
have fun

if he leaves you because you don't want to have sex he is an idiot and a as* hole and didn't love you anyway

you shouldn't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to do. Just tell him to be gentle and use protection and it should be okay. It gets easier after the first time I hear

Depends baby...if the dude is half as well hung as me then its gonna hurt like all hell. Try thinking of zebras to relieve the pain.

thanks guys athleta4life and omgitzzjackie you guys especially helped thankyou for making me feel a little more comfortable I've been worrying about it for quite a while

I don't want to scare you but depends on the guy I guess.
For me it was horrible..like a nightmare..
Ear piencing?That would be nice...Imagine your belly beeing stabed with brutality with a knife more than 5 times..
Now you know..
But like I said...depends...

Don't let him pressure you into sex. If he does, then he doesn't love you for you he just wants to have sex. And it wasn't as bad for me as the girl above me, but it wasn't just great either. It was a lot of discomfort and a little bit of pain. But it gets better. To minimize pain, he needs to be very gentle and go very slow if you decide to do it.

yes be ready. dont let him force you into sex,
it hurt me the first time, and did not enjoy it at all, but once you have a few times you start to enjoy it more

its not so bad but yeah it hurt me it felt like he was ripping me apport but some say for the fist time go on the top well I had my first time on the botton and it dint hurt as much as being on the top for the second time ...