Sex just isnt feeling good!

so I've had sex 4 times. and I thought at first that it wouldnt be great, it would hurt...etc. which it did. and it wasnt good. but now, its still not good. I mean its oook, but like its not good, and I want it to be great. so, is it odd that it still...

doesnt feel great, or does it take awhile for the hurting to go away and for the orgasms to come?

MAybe the person you're having sex with just isn't the person you really want to be with.

you need to learn to love yourself first. you need to learn to bring yourself to an orgasm to know what an orgasm feels like before you truly begin to enjoy sex right now all you feel is discomfort because your body does not know how to lubricate itself yet and this is why you need to learn to masterbate and discharge first. When you have masturbated enough the vaginal muscles will begin to feel a pressure such as the urge to urinate if you just relax and continue the massage you will eventually release the magic fluids you are seeking for lubrication. You must imagine how you are accepting it, how you want it to stretch you, how you want him to touch you or himself, how you like fast or deep, or imagine him watching you as you carress and suck your own nipples and imagine him being soo turned on by watching you. You need to create that sense of want in your body and mind and only then will you experiencethe magic

Your Guy is not doing it properly. It happens When guys take more interest in porn and they try to immitate them, Keep in mind everything in porn is fake.
As him to play with you fondle caress you, kiss you all over you body maybe give you an oral.Let him play with your boobs for a long time.When you feel you are ready to let him in.OPEN SESAMESE. this is definately going to make you feel gr8.