How to enjoy sex with my boyfriend?

how can I be super freaky with my boyfriend. When I have sex I don't really enjoy. I enjoy it if he givesme oral and then when I'm about to have an org**m we can have sex with him on top and I rub my clit against him then I will be satisfied but other than that I'm a no go. how can I enjoy sex more. I just can't enjoy it unless I have my clit stimulated. I'm 21 and I want to enjoy it but I can't. and when he plays with why clit w/ his fingers it just doesn't feel good. I just sit there. I recently bought some cute lingerie and I want to where it and have a good time. please help

if your under the age of 18 you need to talk to your parents

okay I'm 21