What are tips to having sex for the first time?

any tips on having sex for the first time? pen*s + vagina = baby in 9 months

woah woah woah... slowww down there. lol
nothing scares away a girl faster than rushing into a sexual relationship.
You need to consider your age, and hers to. You don't want to do anything that you will regret later... virginity is something you CANNOT take back!!! And although it might not mean too terribly much to you... but trust me.. if shes still a virgin.. It means a HELL of a lot more to her. Trust me, I'm a girl, I'm 16 and I'm not going to have sex with my boyfriend until I think were ready. And he is putting absolutely no pressure on me at all. And you also need to consider how long you have been dating... whether you are sure your in love, and ask how she feels about it. Do you have condoms? Can you get them? Taking the time to make these precautions would probably make the experience that much better.. and without worry of getting her pregnant... or STDs. remember... one little sperm is all it can take to get her pregnant... so condoms are a must.

Have you brought this up with your girlfriend yet? You need to seriously think ahead with stuff like this. I no its going to feel wierd talking about it.. but if you two are in love.. it should be a breeze. Also... never pressure her. If she says she's not ready.. Shes not ready!! And if you love her.. you would respect that.

Okay as for having the actually sex. Like I said, I've never done it before, but I'm pretty sure as to how its supposed to go, and what we want.
1.) make love, not f*ck. It's wayyy more fun when you do things in love, and in a loving way.
2.) Be gentle.. not aggressive. Its the first time.. theres plenty of room for aggressive sex laterrr in life.
3.) Please oh please... do NOT just jump straight into the sex. itll ruin everything. Take it nice and slow. Take the time to take her clothes off gently and slowly... and appreciate her body and all its glory. Kiss her in a tender way.
4.) whisper things in her ear that make her just melt... like 'wow you are so gorgeous'... or 'baby I love you'. Something sweet... not dirty.
5.) If its her first time.. keep in mind.. it probably is going to hurt or be really uncomfortable for her. Thats why its so necessary to go in slowly. And ask her if it feels ok and stuff like that. Because if she's in pain, you probably need to know...
6.) You really really need to make sure you pick the right place to have sex. Outside or in a closet, or a public place is really not quite as accomedating or comfortable. Plus it will probably just make the two of you quite paranoid that someone could find you.
7.) I know it doesnt sound like fun... but maybe you should talk to your dad or someone you trust about it before you have sex. That way.. if something terrible does go wrong... such as a condom breaks and she gets pregnant or something... You can have someone to talk to who wont be completely surprised your even sexually active.

Well, thats about it.
Good luck

if its her first time too you better know she is not thinking what your thinking.

If its her first time too - make her very comfortable. make her feel sexy. Be gentle, slow & patient.

naughty sex comes later!!!