Does sex for the first time really hurt that badly?

Hi I will get married this summer and I am freaking out already. I am scared of sex for the first time because my friends told me it hurts like hell. Plus I am not sure what birth control method to use because we are postponing pregnancy for a while. Let...

me hear what you've got. Thanks.

Sex for the 1st time can be painful yes, but if you take pre-cautions you will be able to reduce the amount of pain you feel. For instance, make sure you are really turned on and relaxed, this will help you becos if you are tense and uncomfortable you wont enjoy it. Next make sure he wears a condom or you are on the pill to prevent unwanted pregnancy. The make sure you use lubricant on yourself and rub a little on him as well before he puts it in, this will help it slide in easier and wont hurt you as much becos there wont be much friction there, but make sure he goes in slowly and gently for the 1st few times you have sex becos you must give your body time to adjust and get used to it. Hope this helped.

yes it is very painful for first time but not for all but it ispossible, so use a lubricant he goes very slowly gentle for pregnency use a comdom take any birthcontrol pill.

yeh it is panful for the first time cause you are not used to it so just take it slow and make sure you r both ready and things will just flow

well........ itdepends
for me it didnt buteverybody is diff and itdepends on the guy just let himknoethat he needstotake it slow

Calm down it barely hurt me at all