Sex confusion

I'm 18 and has been going out with this 20 yr old guy who is like a family friend for about 7months now. No one knows about us because our families would freak out! but we are now having sex and he is the first guy I had sex with and same I am his first too. I love him but im not in love with him. I cant picture spending the rest of my life with him! Should we come clean with our families, break up or keep doing what we're doing? Help!!!

Well there are a couple ways of going about this situation...

1 - You can break up while you are ahead and nobody knows that everything happened between you two. And of course tell him why you guys are breaking up.

2 - You could stay with the relationship if you guys are happy and he continues to make you happy there should nothing to regret...

3 - Come clean and get bashed from both sides and then end up breaking up because it is just too stressful and full of drama.

Love is confusing and you might not realize what you have with him until you finally lose him. Think long and hard before you break up with this guy. I mean he is your first and you can trust him since you have known him for so long. In my opinion I think you are taking him for granted and just want to live like a teenager but that may not be true either.

break up when you get older you will regret having sex wit someone you really didntlove plus you are to young to b having sex are you going to take those pils or something dont do this

You're not in love with him, so why are you dating?
I know it's nice to have someone care about you and give you affection, but really if this isn't going anywhere it isn't worth it...