Sex...at 13?/

so im 13...mi boyfriend and I have been datin for 8 months .and we love each other all we have done is make out and hes fingered me. and I've also given him a blow job..and a hand job..we wunt to have sex..but im not too sure if its like abnormal to do...

it..now considering iam so young/??/ if you know what imean .but idont need some lecture about aids or ..or about how premarital sex is like bad or somethin ..ijus need sum thotful people who want to help:]] thnx!!!

Well I'd say keep doing the other things your doing now but I would hold off on the sex frount, your 13 and I'd wait a few more years till your a bit older, because with sex I think you should really wait till you know for sure your with the right guy. So if when your 18 or so your still loved up then consider it then! hope this helped

1 you shouldnt have given him a BJ
2 Don have sex with him cause when you start, thats all that the relationship will be about

I'm sorry, but I have to be blunt: NOBODY should be that horny at 13. Blowjobs, handjobs, fingering? At this point in life girls and boys are just recovering from the cootie stages, and learning how to deal with feelings. Half of the girls your age haven't even kissed a guy yet, and you're going in for sex? That's just not a good idea.

I suggest you wait, get closer to your boyfriend for a couple years, and then see for that takes you. DO NOT do this to yourself, you will feel dirty and regret it one day if your boyfriend decides to leave you. It's never a good idea to give a boy sex that young either, he'll get a taste of the good stuff and then decide that you're not enough for him anymore.

At 13 girls aren't, or at least shouldn't, be emotionally/psychically ready for sex. Just wait for a while. Don't go down that road, and make that mistake babe!

I would say don't do it. You are too young to be having sex, giving blowjobs, handjobs, and getting fingered. You should wait at least for another two or three years before any of that.

ok I can do that. listen you are too young to even know what love is. you may feel love but its not the real thing trust me you need more time to really feel love... I know that.
another thing is when you get married or get into another boyfriend would you like it if he already had sex at 13? I dont think so. just tell the kid whos with you to take it slower. just kiss and make out. its not worth it. I've been close too but trust me just be strong and say no and that should be easyer for you sence your a girl.

good luck,
matthew

( if you really dont want a lecture this is what I would say)
no. dont do it.

but considering I've been there done that (but um not the fingering, bj, hand job) 13 year old hormones are CRAZY! at thirteen I thought I was going to marry my ex so seriously that we gave eachother rings (expensive like 150 dollar rings). im not saying it wont last but rethink this. you dont know how this could end up. im also not saying your boyfriend isnt a fantastic guy but you never know why guys are in a relationship at that age.

well if ya wanna then I guess but you really shouldnt because 13 is young
just because every1 else is doin it.. that dont mean you have 2 do it 2 hehehehehe
yay sex!!!
im glad im older then you lolz
im 18 lolz

I think you should. it feels really good. just make sure you use protection. email me on here and tell me if you actually do it.

I strongly recommend you wait, and I'm 22 years old. Later in life you will definitely regret it and wish you would of waited. You will look down upon yourself. Do yourself a favor and stick to the 4play since you've already done that. I would of also recommended waiting for what you have done.

Dont do it.

well I lost my virgenity at the age of 13 not the best choice that I have made. in my opinion you should wait till you get a little older and if you are really thinking about talk to your parents. if anyone ever needs advice email me at Fun mail me

I don't know I mean I would. my boyfriend has asked me to have sex befor I said yes but then we got in a fight. it's not the smartest thing to do tho