Should i have sex at 13?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now...
He's 14 and I'm 13 going on 14...
We talk about having sex all the time...
We have done everything together except had sex...
I really really want to do it, but I'm scared of pregnancy at...

13...
He said I'm ready when your ready So I know he'll respect my decision...
Should I have sex or wait until I'm older???

I hate the close mindedness of some people...

Sex is pretty much what you make it.

Ignoring the sexuality in teens is what causes so many unwanted teen pregnancies today.

If you decide to have sex OK. but you're right to be scared about pregnancy. If you're going to have sex be prepared for it and do you're homework. Condoms are only 80% effective which is alarming if you flip the percentage to a 20% chance of becoming pregnant or getting such a serious STD like HIV.

When you decide to start having sex you should start seeing a OBGYN or gynecologist to make sure everything is ok down there. They can offer you lots of options to prevent pregnancy.

Of course the only 100% way to prevent STDs/STIs and pregnancy is abstinence.
Please do you homework and have emergency plans. What if the condom breaks? what if you miss a pill? Know what to do (get the morning after pill) and how to get it.

Sex is a lot of responsibility.

xox
Sika

Wait until a time when you feel like you don't have to ask other people. You're still too young.

you are 13 years old hun...sex should b the last thing on your mind...if he doesnt respect your decision then he's definitely not the one for u...wait awhile until your sure your ready...if you have questions about having sex and your worried about the outcome dont do it

jesus chirist, another one. what is it with young teens today. When I was 13 I was happy just to grab a boob, my mind could comprehend sex but I wasn't even that interested. Its just way to young, have you read how many girls on this site are pregnant at 14, thats because they have sex at 13. very bad idea, you will be much happier if you wait. And I wasn't going to say this but, if you have ses at 13, your going to become a slut, I've seen it a thousand times. you might not be one of those women but most who loose at 13 have slept with over 5 guys by the time they turn 16. and then the number just keeps going up because guys know that its easy, they'll date you to get some and then leave you. its a cycle. Sorry for the rant, good luck and please listen.

You really need to take the advice of a guy. ^^piker 187^^ hit the nail right on the head!
The earlier a girl starts having sex, the greater likelihood she will have of having multiple partners. The younger a girl starts having sex, the less responsible she is in who she has sex with. Just because you have been with someone for over a year, it doesnt mean you have to bring intercourse into the picture, ESPECIALLY at such a young age. You arent going to end up marrying this boy, so why would you give him your virginity?

Because premarital sex is not love, it only leads to pain and disappointment for those who are seeking that love. When two people break off their relationship after having sex, it is like ripping apart flesh. This is why two teenagers will struggle so much and become so dependent on those they give their bodies to. Premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!

**The right time to have sex is when you're sure that this is the person you will be spending the rest of your life with and you can handle the consequences of your intimacy.**

Sika, your answer is top notch (as usual).

What you've really said, very articulately, is that contraception and disease is the biggest responsibility. I would say that the majority of 13 year olds are not mature enough to handle that, let alone the emotional crap (mind games) that come with a sexual relationship.

wait until your older trust me. every one gets so anxious to do it. but later your realize how precious you are after you lost it. waiting it out is best. dont push yourself into doing something you really dont want to. you might regret it. and having a baby at 13 isnt a nice thing. people talk about you parents disown you blah blah..

13 is way to young to have sex but if you do it b careful

I'm 23 I haven't had sex because I'm not a F'n retard. There's over 1000000000000 things to do besides have sex that have longer lasting positive feelings.