Why doesn't sex feel good to me?

I have had sex with 2 guys , one my ex, and one my boyfriend now. with both guys . I dont feel anything during sex. it neevr feels good for me and it really sucks . also. I've never bled like most girls . I dont thinkmy 'cherry' has been popped. do all girls have their cherries popped? and why doesnt sex feel good for me I've tried everything. helppp

If it doesnt feel good, why do you keep doing it? For a lot of girls, intercourse isnt that great for them. They get off more on oral then vaginal sex! You'll just have to find what works best for you and go with it! Not all girls bleed their first time, it doesnt mean anything. Im sure your hymen is no longer intact.

some girls dont have a cherry I wouldnt worry about that

this answer above me is wrong every1 has a hymen(cherry) to break

Your tampon could've broken it before you had sex.

well no not every girls cherry pops. and it wasnt that good for me at first but now I like it. I think it is one of those things that just grows on you and you learn to like it it comes with age.

every girls cherry pops but it doesnt mean it does during sex. it could be anytime, heck, even from running. but it may not feel good to you cause like angelfire2708 said you may not like that and you may have to find something that suits u. and fungirl might be right. you may just grow into it when you become of age and like it.

To clear up things about 'the cherry' :
The hymen is a layer of tissue that partially conceals the vaginal orifice of some girls and women. The hymen is also referred to as a girl's 'cherry' or maidenhead.

During the early stages of fetal development there is no opening into the vagina. The layer of tissue that conceals the vagina at this time usually divides incompletely prior to birth. The size and shape of this opening or openings varies greatly from one girl to the next. There are girls who do not have a hymen at birth, as the tissue divides completely while they are still in the womb.

The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty. Any activity that places tension on the vulvar tissues may stretch or tear the hymen. As a result, many girls and teens tear or otherwise dilate their hymen while engaging in physical activities such sports, horseback riding, inserting and removing tampons, and while mas*urbat*ng. A girl may not know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood loss or pain experienced during this event. It may also occur when she is too young to remember or understand what has occurred.

The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates a girl's virginal state. No one can determine by physical examination alone whether a woman or teen has engaged in vaginal intercourse. Only about 50% of teens and women experience bleeding the first time they have intercourse, so blood stained bed sheets are not a reliable indicator of prior virginity. The hymen of some women tear on more than one occasion. There are even hymen that are elastic enough to permit a pen*s to enter without tearing, or tear only partially. This is usually true only if the dilation first occurs very gradually with fingers or other objects over an extended period of time. Virginity is a spiritual attribute, not a physical one.

My first question to women who don't think sex feels good is ... do you mast-urbate?

If you don't know how your body reacts and responds to different sexual stimili then how do you expect a man to know?

My advice is to start exploring yourself... and find out what makes you tick.

Educate yourself, visit: http://www.the-clito...

WELL EVERY GIRL HAS A CHERRY THAT IS JUST WAITING TO GET POP BUT MAYBE BECAUSE THE GUYS THAT YOU HAD SEX WITH WERE NOT PLEASURING YOU THAT MUCH NOW IF YOU WANTED PLEASURE YOU NEED TO GET NASTY AND DO THE IMPOSSIBLE OK HERE HOW YOU DO IT TRY NEW STYLES AND DO SOME THING YOU NEVER DONE BEFORE THAT MIGHT MAKE YOUR PLEASURE BETTER.

wow I wondered into the wrong forum