Sex- anal-vaginal

ok so me and my boyfriend have decided we are ready for a step up in our relationship but we dont know what to do - anal or vaginal sex ..we will use a condom for both of course and lube because we do not want a baby right now and the pill is not an...

option so what would you say is less painful, less risk of pregnancy, better suite for two virgins and just general advice please

Do not start your sex-life with anal sex. If you are mature for sex follow the normal traditional way. Later, when you are perfect in normal sex, orgasm, etc, you may think of the anal option.

I would not suggest anal sex anytime soon. It hurts! Abstinence is the only sure way to keep from getting pregnant,but condoms do work. But they are only 98% effective when it comes to pregnancy or HIV/STD. If you think your ready then try missionary to start with.

Vaginal sex is by far the best way to start. After all, the vagina is made for penetration: elastic and lubrifies itself. Anal sex is for the more adventurous and experienced since it can be quite painful if done wrong. Using a condom will reduce your risk of getting pregnant and keep you healthy from STD's. Read the instructions carefully that way you will use the condom the right way so it doesn't break (pinch the top for no air bubbles and make sure to be well lubricated..foreplay is highly recommended). You've got a lot of things to try out just with vaginal sex. This should keep you busy enough untill the next step!

if you want to keep your virginity for your when you get married then i would suggest an*l as the chance of you getting pregnant are next to nothing but its up to you, youbetter buy some lubricant before you start as your anus will be really tight, tell him to go slowly and not to go full blast as you will be screaming in pain and there will be loads of blood