Sex, i'm worried about the pain

Righttt;
Im 14 years old
And a boy always says he wants sex
He dont put me under pressure,
And hes my ex boyfriend
I dont know what to do
Because I quite like the idea of it,
But if my parents found out they would go absolutely mental
And also im...

worried about the pain
Any adviceee ??
Thankss xx Ally x

You are only 14 and could you imagine yourself getting pregnant or catching an STD and having to tell your parents that? No birth control or condoms are 100% sure that you wont get pregnant so just hold off. Enjoy being young and I know you said he was not putting pressure on you but just by him saying he wants to have sex to you is pressure. Really think about this before you jump into it! Good Luck and God Bless!

DONT DO IT, I HAD SEX AT A YOUNG AGE AND I FELT LIKE IT WAS REALLY OVER RATED.. AND 14 YEAR OLD GUYS CANT KEEP A SECRET FOR SHIZ LOL
SEX WHEN your OLDER IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT FROM WHEN your 14 TRUST ME DONT DO IT ICUZ you WONT ENJOY IT AND your GONA HAVE SO MANY WORRIES AFTER your 14... BE A KID YEA

Honey, let me tell you, 14 is WAY to early to lose your virginity... take it from someone who knows when I say you WILL regret it for the rest of your life and when you find someone special, you will wish that was the person you gave yourself to the first time. Wait till it's special, I know thats a cliche' but its true.

just wanted to add to the comet I maid earleyier.If youre going to make this adult choice act like one. USE A CONDOM. If you do it w/ a ex youre most likley going to be heart broken @ it wont get yall back toghther. Youre ex will most likeley take you as a ho(not that you are). best of luck funmail me if you want.

Is there a reason why you would want to lose your virginity to an ex?

ok I lost my vcard at 13 so I could tell yu...not going to lie it does hurt at first but then everything else is good...if yur not ready then dont do it but jusz make sure yur in love and its not jusz a hit it and quit it situation

Awh...14 isnt too young well I don't think it is that was the age I lost it..just make sure it means somethin and just one of those sexs for the sake of it..they suck..I lost my virginity to a lad I thought I really liked he was my boyfriend nw I regret it because now I cant stand him..and I regretted it..but make sure he doesn tell people because lads and girls at this age is all dey talk about and EVERYONE finds out..its the worst thing ever because yu gt labelled...it only hurts fr a wee while your first tym afta that its fckn awesome...XxxX

Youre not to young to lose youre virginity. But it would be stupid to lose it to a ex that doesnt even care about you. It onley will hurt when he puts it in the first time.If youre realey wet it will hurt less. So make sure he fingers you.

Well, do you love him? If not, don't have sex with him. And he's your ex? Come on. Don't give it up that easy.
Sounds like you need to (and I know it sounds geeky, but it's what you need to do, for your own good) talk to your parents about this situation.
They'll tell you what's best.
Your parents can cme in handy more than you would ever think they could.

You're not ready, Ally.

By your own admission, you're filled with apprehension about pain, and about your parents finding out, so listen to yourself. If you are questioning this even 1% then you're not ready. It's a huge step and full of responsibility that many 14 year olds don't deal with well.

First of all... don't have sex with just any boy.
Second of all... definitly don't have sex with someone you aren't in a serious relationship with for a long time.

Virginity is such a special thing, ones its gone, its gone and you cant get it back. If you give it to the wrong person, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Don't have sex with the wrong person. Wait till you are in a mature, adult relationship.