Sex

my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him before I finish highschool,but iam afraid of getting pregnant.what are my chances of getting pregnant or getting a std if I do decide to have sex with my boyfriend chris before I finish Highschool,but if I...

decide not to have sex how can I tell chris that I decided not to without making him angry.

It's all up to you, its your own your decision! There are many methods you can use to prevent an unwanted pregnancy (birth control, condoms.... i would recommend looking into your options)and if ur worried about std's then go get tested together and talk about your past sexual experience to make sure you are both safe! Just whatever you do let it be your decision don't let him or others pressure you into something you aren't ready for! good luck 3

Seems to me that you dont want to - that you are just doing it for him. If he loves you, he will wait. His anger should play no part in your decision because:
from an article on fertility I read, if you dont use any protection and you are at/under 18, chances are 80% that you WILL get pregnant. Realistic chances for either pregnancy or std could be as high as 15-30% from slipped/broken condoms, inproper washing and hygene, etc. For an STD, whether you are in high school or not, GET HIM full spectrum and HIV TESTED. NO TEST, NO SEX. Not having the money for the other tests is NOT an excuse. That is the ADULT thing to DO, and SAY, and DEMAND, or REFUSE if your demands are not met(and if this is what you want to do - it doesnt sound like it is). If you can't say it, your not ready emotionally. If he wont agree, he HAS an STD, or is not ready emotionally. You are too afraid to ask, or if he refuses, than this is a bad relationship that wont work anyway - you should always be comfortable expressing your worries and getting them SOLVED. Remember love waits but sex doesnt. If he cant wait - than he was going to leave you anyway after he got what he wanted. Good luck.