He only sometimes acts like he likes me

How am I suppose to be open with this guy, we had sex already. He says he likes me but sometimes acts like it and then again sometimes doesnt. We flirt, we have a couple times after we did that, and everything was fine. He is just being weird and not himself. Prom is coming up...should I wait and see if he asks me, or just ask him full on whats going on. It just feels like im always the one trying here, and he never is. He told me he likes me, but we just need to hang out some more. Ok...fine, but why dont you ever call or text to hang out??? werid!! what do I do about that. Plus his x is always there in the way!! She always makes him think there going to get back together. Even though they wont...she has a boyfriend. uhgg I really need some advice???

The bottom line is he is just using you for one thing.
I think you already know what it is.
You should have never had sex with him. Come on, your not even in a relationship with him.
Just move on...

okay well the X is a main factor, see I would say try and make him see that you wont always be there for him and he has to prove that he wants you, but if you did that the X might move in... but ask him, he might just be nervous around you, I still am with my girlfriend sometimes... the reason he probably isn't nervous around his X is because she is an old flame and they are friends ect.. but yah dont fully ask him but hint towards it like, 'you know the prom is coming up..' or a more forrward approach 'so your going to be taking your special girl to the dance right?? '

I hope this helped

oops sorry the fau one is me :P accidently click anonymous

ok you came to the right place, first guys are always going to flirt thats just the nature a male. you say his ex is always around that can be a good or bad thing, for example they can be still good friends or bad in the sense that they are trying to get back together. You said that he you guys had sex already , it could be that he feel that he already had you and what should thing else but what you need to do is keep doing what you doing but step up your game to the next level because what thats going to do is how him realize what he's about to lose. So dont really worry about what he's doing and have him start worrying about what your doing

Hes saying he likes you so he doesnt look like a jerk for using you! You said that his ex always makes him think that they are getting back together. Well, its no different than you thinking theres someting more going on between you & this guy when its obvious there isnt.

'Sex to Get Love?'
~That`s not a way to get a guy to love you , he`s only using you this way . He hasn`t got any respect for you and he doesn`t love you .
~He would be with you physically but not and never with his heart . He probably would dump you after having sex, because he got what he wanted . Not your heart or soul , but just your body. Sex will not make him love you.
~Sex is a stronger urge in men>Men just typically won't pass up a chance for sex.