Is it right to see someone when you're separated?

My husband decided to leave our marriage over 3 years ago. He lives far away and I've visited him numerous times but he's never come to see me. Whenever I think our relationship is improving something happens which knocks it back again.

In the start of this year, he did something which really annoyed me and I decided to see somebody. I have never been with anybody else before. I met with this guy a few times for meals but he doesn't have much to talk about so I didn't really get to know him. He then invited me back to his place and asked me to go on a holiday which I turned down.

I felt I didn't know him and having sex with him just for the sake of it would have been a huge mistake. I've not seen him since.

And your question is???

Is it right to see someone when you're separated?

if your intentions are to get back with this person then of course it is. but if you are just seeing the person because you dont want to be single then you are wasting your time. there is always someone who will care for you, and if the person you are seeing will not, then you should find someone who will

Well if you have been separated that long, and yes I think it is alright to see someone. Am sure your husband isn't being celibate.