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Selfish or not?

Asked by chels07 over 3 years ago, 1 answer.
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I have known my boyfriend for 5 years. We just started dating 3 monthes ago. We love each other with all our heart. The problem is, he lives over 1400 miles away. I will only be a senior in high school but he graduated 2 years ago. He wants to move out here and be with me for a year until I graduate. I'm not sure if wanting him to come out here is not selfish of me. Please give me your oppions and what I should do. Thank you very much.

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Answered by familycoach on Jan 17, 2007, 05:55PM
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Dear Chels,

You are not being selfish at all. He wants to come to you....This is great, don't worry about being selfish. Being selfish would be you begging him to come live where you are WHEN you know he is happy doing what he wants where he is. Now for you....

You are only a senior in high school, try and not get to serious, if you can help it.. I know thats easy for me to say..isn't it? I guess what I would tell you is to the relationship get as serious as you both want it to be. Don't let it be a headache,pressure,obligation....You are to young for that. As long as you both are happy with eachother. DON'T GET PREGNANT....DON"T MOVE IN WITH HIM...just date and have fun!!
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