How can i stop being self-conscious about my boobs?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a good 8 months.
I am 17 and I have A CUP boobs.
I don't ever jabber about them or joke about their size. Well I never did until my dear little boyfriend decided, while comparing me to a lush C- cupper down the...

street, said to me I wouldn't mind if you had boobs HER size .

So to put my mind off the ordeal, I thought trying to be comfortable about their size would make the pain go away. I do the jokes. I laugh and snort about it.

the pain didn't budge. no sir. So I grounded up the courage to ask my boyfriend if my boob size really mattered at all to him.

He said no and that he could care less.

Next day, he points out some gals in his school who have great knockers and a great cleavage . H..e..ll... I don't even have a darn cleavage!

I understand he likes to joke around. But he also has a problem with being overly honest with what attracts him and what not...

I am bothered.

So. Im thinking HEY BOOB SURGERY! Thats a waste of money though. I'd rather NATURAL ones over them fakies. But I know I'll never grow any bigger then I am now. I'm almost 18

Help me lose my sickly train of thought. I can't believe I've been reduced to wanting plastic surgery ...

Just because she is an A cup doesn't mean there's something wrong with her. Women's chests come in all shapes and sizes.. I know plenty of adult women with small chests. It's not uncommon.

Tell your boyfriend you know he's joking but that it upsets you. Guys don't realize how self-conscious we women are. So let him know how it makes you feel like you're not big enough, etc. Hopefully he'll understand and keep the comments to himself. Love your body!! Don't reduce yourself to plastic surgery.. that's the wrong path.

You should talk to your boyfriend and sit down with him and talk to him about it and be like hey I know your open and honest with what attracts you. But it really bothers me when you are pointing out girls with larger boobs than me.

Also you should talk to your doctor about why they are so small with you being 18 theres a problem with your body why they arent growing properly.

Haha, thank you sexlovinggirl69

Hope doc doesn't recommend plastic surg like everyone else does

i'm gonna have to agree with 'sarahh'. there isn't anything wrong with you, and it's not like you could help what size you became. although i've heard that they could still grow until the age of 22.
i personally don't think implants are the best answer; they come with a lot of risks as well.

but, you could always try a victoria's secret bra for cleavage, they work really well:]

Haha. Thank you so much for your loving support, you two.

I'll take it into full consideration. I don't mind anyone droppin by my house and leaving a victoria's secret bra all packaged and nice looking on my front door step

..I really don't mind..

my mom didnt have anything but mosqito bites till she was about 21 and then something happened.. oh.. yah me she only had larger boobs once she got pregnant with me and shes had them ever since..just wait till your older they will show up eventually as for me im like you for now

Ask your BF how he would feel if you talked about how big the weenies are on some other men (or in pictures of men you've seen) or how he would feel if you made comments on how small his was compared to other men. No, from a mans point of view the size of your b o o bs shouldn't matter if he really cares for you but to be realistic about them, bigger b o o bs do excite most men more than smaller ones. Just like men who wish they had huge schlongs (Johnson bars) instead of teeny we en ies, women want larger bre asts. It's a trait of our culture, whether it's good or bad, it just exists. If you want to become a fashion model you have to look like a bean pole and if you want to be a po rn star you have to have bre ast implants. Except for men, they either have it or they don't. Wait until you've gotten older or have children before you consider implants. They do look good and they feel real but don't be pressured into getting an operation at your young age

Ahaha mosquito bites and johnson bars. Love it.

Thank you guys

I used to have a small B when I was about 18, i've been on the pill since than, and now they are a small C, and I'm 5'7 and weigh 110 lbs. i definately notice the difference and they look great!! they swell a little bit around when you get your period, but other than that they're fine.
If you are considering plastic surgery, make sure they are Board Certified and get MORE than one consultation (they are usually free, depending on where you live!)
good luck, and if you have any questions leave me a message!
xoxo love.

I strongly disagree with sexloving. Being an A cup certainly does not mean that there's a problem with your body or that your breasts are not growing properly. That's just ridiculous to say. Some adults are an A, some are a B, some are a C, etc. That's just the way it is. We're all different.

Breast size does not matter. You're more than just two breasts, right? Sure, your boyfriend might like to look at larger breasts sometimes, but so what? It's natural to look. If I see a guy with an eleven inch penis, I might say, Whoa, look at that. That certainly would not mean that I was not happy with my current partner though.

I would not recommend plastic surgery. Many people get plastic surgery when the real issue is their self esteem. So plastic surgery does not take care of the real problem.

I wouldn't even worry about it at all. I'd rather my girlfriend have smaller boobs then bigger ones anyday. I see it as just fat and actually find em pretty gross to touch if there bigger then a med C