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Scene,punk,emo ect. labels.

=| Asked by undefineduniqueness 3 months ago, 31 answers.
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Stop trying to dehumanize me with a label based on my appearance.Maybe if people stopped worrying so much about other people.There wouldn't be so many fake losers out there.And people would be who they actually wanted to be.Without fear of being ridiculed.Everyone is far too concerned about others having a positive outlook upon them.To actually do what they want because they want to,not just because of what others might think.
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Come with me and lets pretend we are free. Answered by loshmo on Jul 26, 2008, 12:47PM
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If people don't want to be labled then maybe they shouldn't conform to stereotypes.

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\m/ yeeahhhh Answered by ilovemetal23 on Jul 26, 2008, 12:39PM
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uh ok...wats your question?
your just ranting.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 12:41PM
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I want to know what you think about labeling others based on their appearence.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 01:05PM
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loshmo I think our biggest problem as a speciesis our problem with assumption making.We assume without knowing, and take our assumptions for facts.We assume this over that. This is right, that is wrong. A constant struggle for those on either side.We forget how little we truly know.We're ridiculous.It seems like we find the stupidest reasons to dislike others.I'm trying to refrain from doing that, you might want to try too

\m/ yeeahhhh Answered by ilovemetal23 on Jul 26, 2008, 01:09PM
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exactly.
people are only labelled because they conform to stereotypes.
if they dont want to be labelled then maybe they shouldnt say stuff like "I consider myself scene" or "im an emo" or "im thinking about turning goth"
these people want attention
they bring it on themselves
they are far too concerned with other people thinking they're cool

Come with me and lets pretend we are free. Answered by loshmo on Jul 26, 2008, 01:25PM
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This whole topic is balls you aren't after opinions you just want people to tell you you're right and if they don't they you assume them "judgemental" I don't discriminate, I have plenty of scene kid friends. I don't treat them any differently but I do think it's ridculous that they all try to be 'different' in the same way.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 01:33PM
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I'm not looking for opinions? If I wasnt looking for them why would I f*cking ask you then? and if that's what you think then stop replying didnt know it was that easy huh?
thanks cupcakke take care

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 01:47PM
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oh and how you say "its ridculous that they all try to be "different" in the same way.

I think it's ironic that one of the most used insults towards scene people are that they, all think the're unique looking when they all look the same. why do I think this is ironic. because if you go to a grocery store or a macy's or a mcdonald's or anywhere, chances are, little to no people there will have any facial piercings, wild hair, tattoos, or style. So if they're trying to be unique, and if almost every place they step into has no one else who looks like them, I think that's called being unique. the fact that scene kids look similar is true for any style. all bros look alike too, with their ridiculously huge lifted trucks. I personally try to refrain from using the word scene, or any other labels for that matter, because I recognise that we are all still people regardless of our appearance, so I'm not going to try and use a label as a form of slander.

Come with me and lets pretend we are free. Answered by loshmo on Jul 26, 2008, 01:53PM
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You asked everyone. It's obvious you just wanted everyone to go "yeah your so right" or some other crap along those lines.
Or you are being true to scene kid form and looking for some drama.
Argh in which case I've played right into your hands.
Lables are only a problem if you live by them.
You probably do it too so all this moral high ground non prejudice sh!t is boll*cks.

Come with me and lets pretend we are free. Answered by loshmo on Jul 26, 2008, 01:59PM
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"facial piercings, wild hair, tattoos,"

So is that what makes you unique, haveing a few tattoos?
Surely you are more diverse and intresting if you are being yourself.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 02:02PM
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I asked this question knowing people will disagree not hoping people will go along.
I'm not looking for any drama. Littile kid drama bores me and annoys me. I'm 13 and live around very ingnorant people.
I ask things on here to actually get opinions,thoughts,ect.
From people who actually have crossed this issue.

Come with me and lets pretend we are free. Answered by loshmo on Jul 26, 2008, 02:07PM
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I have crossed this issue. I went through a whole phase of thinking I was badly done to cause everyone called me emo. Then I realised it was because I was acting like an emo. Me and all my friends looked completely uniformed it was pathetic. Listening to bands and preteding there songs had meaning to me. Thinking my life was so hard when I had it much easier then.
I'm just glad I've grown out of it all and don't really give a sh!t.
If you know you are being true to yourself. Then you won't care what others think.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 02:28PM
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exactly this is what I was trying to get a cross people should stop worrying about what others think and be themselves like I told ilovemetal23 "I dont think im the sh*t I just dont give a sh*t about what you think" "I know who I am and thats the only thing that matters not the opinions of people that dont matter"

and like in the question thing that started this I even stated

Everyone is far too concerned about others having a positive outlook upon them.To actually do what they want because they want to,not just because of what others might think

Come with me and lets pretend we are free. Answered by loshmo on Jul 26, 2008, 02:35PM
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But you are concerned with how people see you otherwise you wouldn't have such an issue with lables.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 02:40PM
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I'm actually tired of getting labeled and getting judged by what others labell me I've been labeled emo and they will be like hey emo kid go cut yourself even tho im very outgoing and dress normally I've been called scene and that my friend I don't know why and punk and goth ect. I've even been called a prep wich is really sad buut I do my best to ignore.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 26, 2008, 08:12PM
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ohsarah, you know what you should do? get a life

I dont act like a scene kid I dont go along with the crwod I do what I feel is righht for me I dont wear brightly coloured polka-dotted clothing neither do my friends

I dont 'randomly' shout out stupid words like 'cheese' or 'bob' neither do my friends

I dont act like any stereotype I am myself I have a life so I'm not going to waste it collecting stamps like you

now dont tell me to shut up k , sweetums.

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 27, 2008, 05:40AM
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<3 your sarcasm sweetie

My pics? Oh yeah they tell you everything about my life -_-

and if you dont like what I have to say well dont waste your time here
and if your talking about Priscilla? and consider her "scene"
Do you know my other friends? uh no .
I'm not saying anything about your lame come backs now am I?
do me a favor and go run into traffic
bye x
take care

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 27, 2008, 07:20AM
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My problem if I get annoyed with people labeling me.
bigger person? riiight.
My goal isn't to "hurt" anyones feelinfs thats extremely pointless.
me cant handle the truth ? why would I care what you think
I have a life outside this little internet world you call home.

I post what I want to you are no one to tell me what I can and cannot do
kay byeee !

\m/ yeeahhhh Answered by ilovemetal23 on Jul 27, 2008, 08:18AM
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wow I had to look at this question again
I 100% agree with "fau" lol
undefineduniqueness - by your name you obviously think you r, as you said it..."the sh*t"
stop being so concerned with what other people are doing or saying and concentrate on your own life.
gosh
there will things that you dont like
everyone has things that get on their nerves, but we dont sit there on our computers getting stressed about some negative comments to our questions.
if you want to rant, make a video and rant freely on youtube
funadvice is NOT the place to be ranting.
you said your point, now shut up

=| Answered by undefineduniqueness on Jul 27, 2008, 08:24AM
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like seriously stop bothering me your not going to shut me up so stop trying
are you really that obssesed with me or something]stop bothering me this is the 3rd time I tell you ilovemetal23 leave me alone.

Come with me and lets pretend we are free. Answered by loshmo on Jul 27, 2008, 08:57AM
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You started this topic, you should have been aware that it'd get negative feedback.
You can't pick a fight and then pretend to be innocent. If you can't handle people disagreeing then you shouldn't ask people for there opinion.

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