Why do I act weird when I'm alone with him?

Anytime my boyfriend tried to talk about us alone, I get very aggressive to him. I turn him down, and disagree with things he says, and after it, I regret doing it! Can you give me some tips to help me not feel so silly around him! I feel terrible! HELP!!!

You can not tolerate the feeling of vulnerability when you are around him. You disagree with him and challenge him to mask any insecurity or inadequacy that you feel when it comes to him. You may want to ask yourself why you feel this way. Is he argumentative with you? Does he verbally attack you when you try to discuss your issues? Is he insensitive, rude, or inconsiderate? If the answers are yes, then you're just headstrong, and you speak up for yourself within reason. If he is patient and calm, and you say things just to be spiteful - then you're definitely at fault. Your behavior may be derived from previous relationships in which you felt vulnerable - with an ex, your dad, a relative, etc. Perhaps you experienced much conflict with a lot of male individuals in your past. Perhaps you just hate admitting that you're wrong because of your insecurities...You need to apologize to him if you know that you've been unfair and you need to explore the reasons (in your head and past) as to why you behave the way you behave today...This will help both of you to understand your behavior. If you continue to do this to him, he will eventually become intolerable of it and leave you. You need to be open about your guilt and look deeply into your feelings to find answers. Hope this helps!