Scared? or just not ready?

Ok well...me and my boyfriend of 10 months have been talking about sex a lot lately, and frankly I don't know what my decision about it is. I know he wouldn't be mad at me if I told him I didn't want to have sex or that I wasn't ready. But im just not sure if im not ready or if im just scared that something might happen like an unwanted pregnancy. Should I face my fears or should I tell him im not ready? We are very much in love so I know we will end up having sex sooner or later but should it be sooner...or later?...please please help me soon!!! thanx!!

If you love your boyfriend, then you should have sex sooner rather than later. M girlfriend and I are in love and we chose to have sex after six months of being together. But remember, I you do choose to have sex with you boyfriend, use contraception. Go down to your doctors and get a persription for Birth Control pills to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. Also I can't stress this enough, but make sure that your boyfriend wears a condom, to prevent STI/STD's. If you need more advice you can email me at; Fun mail me

Its better for you guys to have it later when you are sure, then to rush it and have it sooner when you arent too sure. Talk a little with eachother about the possible results and the solutions to those results [if you even fall into anything bad]. if howeveryou guys decide that it is time, be sure to use extra extra protection so you wont get pregnant or get any STDs. I hope you guys make the right decision! =]

xox-Cutiee

do it when you are ready there is no need to rush. . . I dont backu up on the pill because it doesnt always work. . . try getting a shot or an iud. I would back you up on the iud because you cannot any possible way get pregnant with that because it blocks off every way. . . but either way you should still use protection when you are ready. . . to tell you one thing about the iud is that the only thing wrong with getting it is that you bleed for 4 months(doesnt bother its just like a period but longer) but after that you dont have a period for five years and cannot get pregnant for five years unless you want to take it out.it doesnt hurt and it doesnt hurt after they pull it out either... if you want to have a girl talk send me a private message.