Can my boyfriend find out if I have an abortion?

im 16years old and I have been with my boyfriend a year this month. I found out 3days ago that I am pregnant and told my mum and my boys mum and dad. every1 was in shock. My boyfriend is happy for us to have the baby and his mum and dad. they all talk as if there would be no problems atool in the future. me and my mum have spoke about it and when I found out I was pregnant, the next day she took me to my doctors and he give me a number for an abortion. I didnt tell my boyfriend that I have booked for abortion. All I have told him is that I wasnt sure what to do because if I chose to get rid of it I know my boyfriend would be heartbroken and I wouldnt want it to come between us. and when I say im trying to think of the future and what it would do to our lives he just says oh it will be great out own little family. and by the way hes 20. but me and my mum have thought about it long and hard and know that I wouldnt be able to cope, and wouldnt be right bringing a baby in the world like this. I dont believe in abortions or my mum but I think its the only way. So I dont want my boyfriend to know that im having the abortion. the appointment is in 2days an im having the abortion pill. I know I might sound like im being selfish but my boyfriend and his parents are acting like everythings going to be fine and that and their not even thinking about things that could go wrong and I just think its best if they dont know. is there any way they can find out I have had an abortion? I know it sounds like I dont care what im doing and I know I will prob regret it but I know it wouldnt be right. I hope you can give me some advice

This is serious hun... You cannot decieve your boyfriend AND his parents. You need to sit down with them tonight or even tomorrow and discuss EVERYTHING.. Discuss some of the following:

* Finance - will you be able to provide for the baby; will you be able to support yourself?

* Responsibility - will you or even he be up to getting up at 3am each morning to tend to the baby; will you take the time and patience to learn new things... things you may not want to do?

*Attitude - Arguments are very likely to rise up when you have a newborn, only because you don't know what to do or say so you take it out on each other.

* Social skills - both of you are young... will you both sacrifice social times with mates or down the pub for a baby. You have to promise yourself it won't be dumped on a parent.

* Future - will many jobs/careers take you on even though you have a child??

If everything starts to make you ALL think and go negative then yes you have an abortion... don't worry about whats right or wrong in politics or religion.. this is your wellbeing. This child was obviously a mistake for both of you... just try not to make the wrong decision, otherwise the mistake would be the mess in your life.

this is a complecated situation , well talk about it with your boyfriend and his family saying that this will not be the best life for the child to be brought in , you need to know that you are ok finaclay and all that tbh. but abortion its a decsion that only you can make but I wouldnt do it behind your boyfriends back if your guna throught with it tell him ok!!!
well I hope you get it sorted out ok!!!
take care X

so since you posted this 4 days ago,
are you not pregnet anymore or did you decied to keep the baby
im curious
lmao