Is sex really that important to him?

okay heres the deal. I like this kid a lot I mean a lot. and im only 13. and he wants to have sex.
ikinda want to but I dont want him touse me or what if I get pregnant?
I mean im not on birth control and I cant ask my mom at this age.
he uses condoms...

but still.
what do you think is the % on getting pregnant w/ a condom?

as the years go by, more and more kids are growing up way too fast...
and a lot of them regret everything later.

Yes- there is a percentage of getting pregnant with a condom. There is always a risk of pregnancy- no matter what you do.

You are 13. You are still extremely young. You should never let a guy pressure you to have sex, or even persuade you to have sex. It sounds like you are not even in a relationship with this boy.

Sex is something two people share together, its not only physical but emotional too. Why risk giving that up to someone you just like? If you are even a little bit worried about it... then DONT do it.

Dont let ANYONE pressure you do have sex. Its your body and your rights.

I'm 15 and personally I think you will regret it if you have sex this young. Think about it. Bad idea if you ask me.

You make your own mistakes in like and you can't learn for somebody elses. It's hard to understand but your virginity is really important and kind of life changing and once you lose it you can't get it back. I was 16 when I lost mine and I was not ready at all and I regret it but you learn from your mistakes. If your willing to take the risk and accept the consquences then thats really up to you but remember your young you ahve your whole life to do things like this and think about if he really truly loves you and you really truly love him. And really you say he just wants sex but if your not sure and you don't want it then just say no. You will respect yourself so much more and other people will to if you don 't lose it now. Anyways good luck

WHAT A LOSER.
Dump his sorry butt.
God created you as a beautiful princess to be loved and cared for.
Cherish your body, it's not for someone else to share!!!

Ps. There's a reason you're too young to legally have sex!

Love Bekky.

Yes, you can get pregnant, even with a condom.
If he loved you, he would respect you and not ask you for sex.
He wants sex for his own selfish reasons.
Read what happens to other girls at FunAdvice, and at your school... as soon as the guy gets the sex he wants, he dumps the girl, and tells his friends he got a piece from you. Either that or you're pregnant, and then he really dumps you.

Tell him to get lost.

Bekky has good advice.

the risk is 20% that you can get pregnant with a condom as they are 80% safe, if he really loves you he wont have s*x with you unitl your ready to do it, dont let him pressure you into it as you will regret forever

How old is that boy?

u are dumb if you have sex with him I am 13 2 and will never have sex at this age I like boys but dousent mean I will have sexat 13

Ok. So your in... 7th? 8th grade?.. Im not going to tell you that your too young because I was in 8th when I first did it. But before you jump into things just know that consequences include being used just for sex or getting a bad name around school and your friends. If you really like this kid.. make sure he really likes you also.. make him your boyfriend and wait a while to see how he is when your really together and see if you still like him or if he's interested in more then just sex. Im a junior (11th grade) in highschool now and have about 4 years of experience but im not the kind of guy to do it just for fun.. I've doen it only with two girls who I was in serious relationships with. Because I wouldnt want to be the reason a grl gets a bad name or feals used or something.. so hope he's something like that. Sex is really all about if your ready... if your ready and you know that your first time should be with him.. then go ahead but if not... you'll move on and find someone else... if sex is really THAT important to him.. you'r not THAT important to him... so just watch out.. its all your choice just make the right one that your comfortable with ... and if he's your first.. itll be with you forever so dont jump into something u'll regret...

the ONE problem with that sentence is you said... I like this kid a lot.. you dont love him.. and your too young. dont do it. :{ and ALSO. your mom's a single parent raising you, and I dont think she would appreciate the burden of having to raise your child too. :l

Tell him to go jerk off in a corner and get rid of his hormones for a couple of hours :-)