How can I cope with hard times in this house?

ok I've been going throw some rough times since I was little now im 15 an live with my grandma an I've been keeping myself from running away but I cant take it anymore I need to leave this house an run far away from here an it scares me that how much I want to do it but I know I need to get out of here so please anyone that can help me respond to this ok thanks !!

everyone has been through rough times I left home when I was 17 I am now 25 and am very stable but before you decide to leave like the others said evaluate your home situation if you are not being mistreated why do you want to leave it is not easy when you have no job or money the streets are not safe for young girls at your grandmothers you are safe and have food when the time is right for you to be on your own you will have finacial security and a place to go just hang in there you are a tough person and everything will work it self out when the time is right dont be in a rush to be on your own do you really want to worry how you are going to pay bills and feed yourself enjoy being a teenager because it does not last forever

Hey.. When I saw your thing I was like WOW! Because I am a 13 year old girl and I live with my grandma and I have been through very much as well. I live in a group home and I do not like it there so I keep running away from there and go to my grandmas. But they wont let me stay at my grandmas and they always send the police to come get me. So basically I cannot stay at my grandmas. I have a similar situation to you. If you want to talk to me you can email me. Well I feel like just running away as well. I have many times, but after a while I feel so exhusted. After a while you find that it gets real boring and there is like nothing to do! Well sorry I dont have any advice for you really. I am actually trying to figure out what to do myself. I live in Edmonton, Alberta. Where do you live? And what exactly is so hard? What are you going through. I have been through much more than most kids my age. I nearly comit suicide once.

First of all "WHERE" would you go? If you are having problems w/your grandma, why don't you sit down and talk to her about it. Grandma's are pretty level-headed people and I am sure she would love for you to talk your problems over w/her. Just give her a chance, I was 15 once and wanted to run away from my grandma. I thought she was old & old fashioned , and didn't love me and just kept me there because she didn't have a choice. But Oh, was I ever wrong. She listened to me and we got to each voice our oipinions about each other and I figured out she was Really a "nice person". Good luck hon!

Well the thing is if you are in any danger at your grandma's house? ask yourself that..the second one is Do you know where your going to live? The third is Have I given it enough time to understand why im living here?

I agree with the others.

Do you "need" to leave, of do you just want to leave?

Is your grandmother abusive? If she's not, then I would suggest talking to her. You can't run from all of your problems in life. Even when times are tough, you'll often find that facing the problem gets a better result and makes you grow more as a person.

NO SHES NOT ABUSIVE