Rubbing.

Ok me and my boyfriend decided that before we do hj and fingureing were just gonna rub now there. While like makingout. Any tips or anything?

Just do what feels right and what your comfortable with. I'd tease a little, getting close to his private, then swerving away: he'll go from wanting you to needing you. Play with his neck, chest, and shoulders a lot. Rub his back and bisceps and have fun.

How about just holding hands like 13 yr olds should ONLY be doing! You are too young to be getting THAT physical. Next month your going to be asking how to have sex!