Relationships

one month ago my boyfriend and I split up. I ended it because I couldnt understand why he didnt want oral sex or even a handjob.A few nites ago at a disco he initiated kissing me and I kissed him back because I still really like him.I dont know what to do.Im completely hung up on him.

I think I'm missing a piece of the puzzle here. You broke it off with him because he didn't want you to give him a blow job or a hand job? If that's the only reason then those are fairly weak reasons to dump someone. Try explaining to him that it's something that you really enjoy doing and see if he'll meet you half way.

He was obviously nervous about his size. Or he didn't want to move to fast in the relationship. If he broke up with you, & then came back & kissed you afterward, don't let him do that. You let him think that he can just run over you & you'll always be on his beck-n-call. Wait until HE asks you back out, and then allow him to kiss you.

Did you ever think that he liked you to much to let you do that to him? Maybe he didn't want you to do that because he didn't want to ruin your relationship. He might want to take his time and make sure yall are in love with each other so if your not it won't hurt so much when yall split. If you like him ask him back out and wait till he's ready before yall decide to get sexual.

he went down on me one night we were both drunk but he initiated it I was totally shocked it confused me all the more.