How to ask someone if they still love you?

when you truely love someone and they sometimes show signs of lack of intest in you, how do you ask them if they still love you? how do you get them to be intrested in you and give you the atention you deserve and love you the way you should be loved or the way you love them, without havi sex with them. I never had sex and I am not inttending to have it in the neare future. I love my girl friend very much but it lookes like she does not care. I will always do till she says it she no longer wants me in her life.

well, obviously you are a guy.
girls are really complicating, I'm a girl, and I know.

but, when she acts like she doesn't care, it's okay, she really does care.
she just wants you to think she doesn't so you will be more attracted to her.
& make you think that she is not jealous over all the other girls.

I do that to my boyfriend, but he tells me about it.
& he does the same thing sometimes.

some days I want to be all lovey dovey on him, and he doesn't.
some days I want to cuddle and he doesn't.
it's just bad days I guess.

but don't be too hard on yourself.
trust me, if she said "I love you"
then she really loves you.
she does care for you.

Well really for girls and I am a girl, being clingy to guys is a bad thing even though we want to be cuddly and be all over you, but when we do it to other guys or if some other girls do it to guys, they seems to hate it, thats why some of us girls tend to act like that, that we seem that we dont care, but we do care very much. If you want her all over you, you got to show her, like be all over her, cuddle, give her sweet kisses and tell her its ok to be cuddly if she wants to.

In my point of view some guys hate it if their girlfriend is clingy its like being obssesed, thats why I dont tend to be clingy w/ my boyfriend so often cause he told me his ex was like a jack russel who wants to spend every minute with him, that it annoys him sometime, but when I dont hold his hands, hug him a few times, he pulls me towards him and do it himself, I find it cute his like saying to me; hug me I want you, I want to feel your embrace or I've missed you so much.

So I guess by doing that to your girlfriend will give her a hint you want her to be in your presence and show she cares. Give her signs you miss her, take her out in the night w/ just the two of you and just talk about your feelings or something, but dont over do it.