Relationship troubles - no more sex

Hi,

My question is in regard to me girlfriend and I. We have been dating for almost a year. She was a virgin, 33 years old. I have been sexually active since I was 21 years old. We started dating with a no sex policy....she wanted to wait. I was reluctant, but I wanted to try. I have fallen in love with her. She is still on the fence about our future. She is committed to me, but not ready for marriage. We have struggled with it many times, but about 6 months ago, we began having sex. It has been really good. We both have an emotional and physical attachment to each other. She is now having doubts about her beliefs and her actions. She wants to now abstain from sex. She may be open to still continuing some forplay and manual stimulation, but she thinks it will lead to temptation for intercourse. Basically, I think she would like to not have any sexual activity, because of her beliefs. She doesn't want to be tempted. She wants us to still have a committed relationship. I am torn. I want to stay with her, but going in reverse and not having sex anymore, seems like it will be really difficult to do. She is very understanding about my hesitation....we have talked a lot about it. She has enjoyed sex and is attracted to me, but feels as though she is not being true to her beliefs and values. Sex makes her feel guilty, and her guilt is affecting other aspects of our relationship.

Any comments, ideas, suggestions would be helpful. I want to stay with her and try and wait with her. Just wondering if this is really ridiculous, somewhat normal, or not that uncommon.

Thanks,

Dan

now brent black..most women do stay virgins till there in there 30's I know because I was conceived on my mommas first sex night..Yes darling..still wear a rubber

Do not let her to complicate your young life. What she is doing with you that is just not healty. There are sexless life, but that is not that what she is doing with you, and of course there are life with sex, but the endless hesitasion between doing and not doing is weirdo. You are captured, you cannot step forward, but get nothing in the relationship, only endless talking on the 'why not'. Flee till not late.

if you really love her, wait... don't force her or talk her into it. when she's ready, you'll talk about it. girls hate being forced into things like that