Relationship problem

My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years now. at the moment we are attending different universities where we live one hour away from eachother. He wants to go to a different college and it was planned that he would move closer to my school. But now he wants to go to a totally different college that will be three hours away. We've tried the whole long distance thing last year when he moved eight hrs away. I dont know what to do.. He says in the only thing that makes him happy, then why is he moving far away from the only thing that makes him happy? I can not live three years in a long distance relationship, but we've been together for so long..I dont want to leave him. I think down inside he knows that I cant not handle the long distance, because he begged me not to leave him once he told me that he wants to move away. I want him to do what he wants and whats going to make him happy so I told him to go, but I also want to be happy and I know that him moving will make me incredibly sad.

Any advise will help. Thanks

I don't know what to tell you. that would be so sad for me to deal with, too. I'm hoping that next year when I leave for college, I won't have to deal with that, I want him to go with me.

the only thing you can do is try to plan it where you guys see each other atleast every weekend or so if he DOES move farther away. keep contact...send him a letter every week or something, a care package, etc...make sure he KNOWS that you love and miss him. of course HE loves you...he's been with you for 4 years...but he knows what he needs in life, and if it's to go to that college, let him do it. if he chooses the right college, that could lead to a better job for him later in life...if you two get married, your life will be a lot better off if he has that job.

atleast he isn't 8 hours away this time. 3 hours is a lot, but you can see each other almost as much as you are now. don't leave im because of it...talk to him and try to work it out. if he leaves, see what happens. hopefully everything works out for you.

I'll pray for you...if you need to talk you can funmail me anytime.