Relationship or friends with benefits??

I've been in many relationships and when they dont work out the guy who used to be my friend is all weird around me and it changed our friendship forever. I've been friends with benefits and it has seemed to work but I'm still missing the relationship purks. Which one is better?

Only you can answer this for yourself.

And you've learned a hard fact: Sex, love, does change friendships permanently--forever.

Your 'friend with benefits' doesn't work because it is set up from the beginning NOT to mean anything.

Sounds like you want a guy who has all the elements of friendship, plus love and sex. Well, that means kissing a few frogs. Learning from your mistakes and going on. No one said it would be easy. But being hard, doesn't mean it's not worthwhile.

Blessings and good luck

The first advice you got is absolutely correct. I had a "Friends with benefits" before. Lasted 2 years and of course I ended up wanting more cause I to missed the perks of having a boyfriend. Me and the guy can't talk to each other at all anymore. It's bad cause he lives down stairs from me. Like the first person said you should of had yourself prepared for this cause it always no matter what ends in tragedy.