Relationship or friends with benefits??

I#039;ve been in many relationships and when they dont work out the guy who used to be my friend is all weird around me and it changed our friendship forever. I#039;ve been friends with benefits and it has seemed to work but I#039;m still missing the...

relationship purks. Which one is better?

Only you can answer this for yourself.

And you#039;ve learned a hard fact: Sex, love, does change friendships permanently--forever.

Your #039;friend with benefits#039; doesn#039;t work because it is set up from the beginning NOT to mean anything.

Sounds like you want a guy who has all the elements of friendship, plus love and sex. Well, that means kissing a few frogs. Learning from your mistakes and going on. No one said it would be easy. But being hard, doesn#039;t mean it#039;s not worthwhile.

Blessings and good luck

The first advice you got is absolutely correct. I had a quot;Friends with benefitsquot; before. Lasted 2 yrs and of course I ended up wanting more cause I to missed the perks of having a boyfriend. Me and the guy can#039;t talk to each other at all anymore. It#039;s bad cause he lives down stairs from me. Like the first person said you should of had yourself prepared for this cause it always no matter what ends in tragedy.