Relationship builders

how do you make a relationship build up and up? I really want this to be the kind that can last for a few years, because I think I really, actually, for the first time in my life, love a girl, and I really want to make sure that she can love me too and we can love e/o even more..I just want this to keep building..and yes, I'm 13, so no sex or nothing..

Ok, well first of all, take the whole doing things past kissing verrrrrrry slow. I know your only 13, but I dont really know how far you go with girls. So, take it slow, because youll run out of things to do shortly. And this is something that you MUST MUST MUST MUST MUST MUST do*******Make sure that you do many different fun things********* Dont just be in the basement or at the movies everytime you guys see eachother. Go bowling, make a picnic, go to the park. Just do fun things! Switch it up, it will prevent it from getting boring. And make sure that you remind her how much you appreciate and like her. And tell her things from your heart, not only what she wants to hear. Best of luck! Hope I helped!
Jackie

yeah, you did, but we've made out, yes, I was kissing all over her in the car, and I told her straight to her face I loved her, and she said it back for the first time..0_0..so, I mean, she seems to want to make out, because I hugged her, went in for just a regular little peck kiss, and she started french kissing..so, I mean, I can't really do the date thing too often, she lives a good county away, but this does help..her bro and cousin are in a band called stych, and she likes rock, and I don't think that some park or something is really going to be fun..but, I mean, most I've done is gone to stych show and just went to her house yesterday, so..

Awww, the love thing is good! Just remember not to crowd her too much, unless she wants to be. If she REALLY "loves" you she will want to be crowded. But, we all know, even at my age (15) love is more of a lust. You see, I would want to be crowded by a boy if I really liked him. And the whole band thing is good, you could really use that to your advantage. Try to do some stuff for that together, like start small projects. Have her ask her brother if you guys could make signs or something. Thats something fun to do together, and a good excuse to see her. There are plenty of fun things to do... it seems like you have it down! And good job with the kissing it seems like youll be just fine. Remember Im always here if you need any more help!
Jackie