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Can we be together with this age difference?

Asked by spaz about 1 year ago, 9 answers.
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If my boyfriend is 13, and I am 18 years old and we are NOT engaging into ANY sexual acts, does the Law say it is okay for us to be together (seeing as though we aren't sexually active), or are we simply not allowed to be together by Law, because of the fact that I am an adult and he is considered a child??? Please help me...

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Answered by lillady on Aug 03, 2007, 07:45PM
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um...why is a 18 and 13 year old together? thats kinda weird...but any ways...well depends on where you live and crap.
I have a cousin, she just turned 12...she has a 18 year old boyfriend...we live in Texas.
well...im not really sure that there is a law about being together...but if you have sex and stuff then that is different.
I still think its weird to have a child dating a adult...if I could I would smack my cousin in the head after beating the crap out of her boyfriend and her mother...because thats just weird. =/

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 03, 2007, 10:15PM
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This is the first lol. Anyways, I always thought the guy was always older than the girl in years... does he look like an 18 year old lol?

Me Answered by deathlydelights on Aug 04, 2007, 06:06AM
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*shakes head*
I doubt its legal...

Answered by angelfire2708 on Aug 04, 2007, 08:25AM
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I cant possibly understand what an 18 yr old woman would have in common with a 13 yr old child! Mentally, and physically, the maturity level of a boy at 13 is 0. If I was a parent, there is NO way my 13 yr old son would be dating an 18 yr old. He wouldnt be dating period!!! Sweetie, it doesnt matter if this situation is legal, or illegal, what matters is...you need to wait at least a few more years, to let him grow up! Let him be a kid. If its meant to be, you two will find each other when the time is right. Not just for you, but for both!

Is there a reason why you arent attracted or interested in dating guys your own age? I have no problem with the girl being older, but only when both parties are adults! You are messing around in dangerous territory. Especially these days! Your not engaging in any sexual acts yet, but there will come a time when you will. You really need to rethink this whole relationship, because this is NOT a healthy situation for either of you.

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 04, 2007, 01:20PM
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WELL, YOU KNOW SOONER OR LATER , SOME THING S*XUAL WILL COME ABOUT .. SO TRY BEING "BEST FRIENDS" ..STAY AWAY FROM S*XUAL THINGS .. I DON'T KNOW?

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 04, 2007, 10:54PM
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they are both right (above me)...the contact will come sooner or later.. so leave him a lone and go find someone in your age group or older.. it's not the end of the world or there's no problem in the world to the point there's no more 18+ guys..you act like they are all taken lol and no one is there for you!

its just me lozers Answered by marisol13 on Aug 06, 2007, 12:33AM
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OK your just WAY OUT OF IT ...what THE HELLZ IS going ON HERE??
1ST I ALWAYS THOUGHT THE GUY SHOULD B RECOMMENDED OLDER OR @ LEAST A PEER BUT IF THERE IS NO SEXUAL ACTIVITY THEN I DONT THINK IT IS ILLEGAL -IM 13 BUT IF I HAD A SON ONE DAY ID NEVER LET HIM B WITH AN 18 YR OLD!! PLUS a lot OF LIL boys I know WHO DO THAT IS 4 THE POPULARITY OR just TO PROVE THEY CAN PULL CHICKS @ and E AGE!! BUT SOONER OR LATER SOME SEXUAL ACTVITIES WILL MOST LIKELY HAPPEN and your A GROWN A$$ WOMAN what THE HELL are U DOIN WITH A 13YR OLD 4 ALL you know HE COULD B SHOWIN OFF TO THE OTHER LIL boy and Y WOULD you want to B WITH A 13 YR OLD CANT you GET SOMEONE your OWN AGE?IM SURE THERES FINE looking GUYZ THAT HAVE A NICE PERSONALITY just OUT THRE you SHOULD B looking 4 THEM NOT 4 A LIL boy!

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 06, 2007, 01:25AM
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girl above me is right... dudes do it to show off..get past it and find your own age group or older...you aint getting nothing out of the little dude

Grandpapa Answered by llewellyn on Aug 15, 2007, 02:46PM
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The law refers to sexual activity, not just dating. So you two can date all you want as long as you are not sexually active. If you were to become sexually active any time soon, it would be a felony.

That being said, I cannot imagine what an 18 year old could possibly have in common with a 13 year old. When I was 13, I was in middle school. When I was 18, I was in college. There should be a pretty big maturity difference between those two ages.

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