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Relationship after middle school

Asked by his1boo 10 months ago, 3 answers.

Hey everybody. okay so this is the situation, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and we are in love. yeah we have had our ups and downs but we always seem to pull through and right now our relationship is better then ever. but heres the...

problem I am 14 years old in the 8th grade and im going to be in high school in the fall. me and my boyfriend applied for both the same two high schools. he got accepted into one and I got accepted into both. the school that he got accepted into I really want to go there, for one I will be able to take Advance placement classes in the 9th grade and two they have an amazing track team. my boyfriend going there will also be a bonus. however the other school I got accepted into is known for being a very excellent school, I dont really want to go there but my parents insist that it'll be the best one for me. I've been so frustrated for the last couple of months not only thinking about how I can convience my parents to let me be happy and go to the school of my choice but if me and my boyfriend dont go to the same school will we be able to maintain our relationship. I know some may say im too young, there will be other boys and all that other stuff. but I really love him and I dont want to let him go. what do you think I should do and if we dont go to the same school how can we maintain our relationship?

:) Answered by kenzie101 on Dec 31, 2008, 12:14PM
192 answers

you should talk to your parents about how much you like this school and this guy. and they should respect your wish. try talking to them about how much it means to you and how you maintain all a's the whole year or something like that to show to them that your going to work hard.

and if they still make you go to the other school then looks like you have no choice but to go. if yours and your boyfriends relationsip is that important then keep dating and any strong relationship would be able to pull through this. try to talk and see him as much as possoble.
sense your at such a young age it will be hard to go to differnt schools, exspically starting high school, but if your love for him is like you say then sounds like you will have evrything under control

smokin Answered by 7teenbeautyqueen on Dec 31, 2008, 12:24PM
31 answers

well if you do end up going to your parents pick... then if your boyfriend really loves you he will still love you. it will be hard but when your really in love youll make it work. just don cheat on him cus thats dumb and make sure he doesnt either obvs..
also try fooling your parents. come up with all the pros for your school and show them all the cons to theirs... it may help. tell them its your decision.
I dont really know your relationship status but dont throw something good away for one good boyfriend... a nicer school might mean nicer and hotter guys... ya never know. I go to a public school so I don't know what its like but im going to be going to college soon. and ik my boyfriend of over a year isnt. he may go to a tech but im going to a big college for a degree. I don't know where but I wont let him interfere with my decisions but ill still love him unconditionally.
goodluck!!!

Answered by kcand3y on Apr 07, 2009, 12:19PM
11 answers

I have the same problem, I am also entering high school this year and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. it hurts me sooo freakin bad because when you really love someone the hardest thing to do is let them go and watch them love someone else. I guess im answering your question and also mine...if he loves you like he says he does, then he wont leave you, but if you start to feel that drift between you, and you notice he starts to act differently, maybe you have to be seperate for the best. and you should try to convince your parents to go to the school you want to go to because its your future, not theirs, and you kinda sorta know where you wanna go with it. hopefully your boyfriend will be a part of it!!!♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

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