Rejection and trust issues

im so afraid of rejection and im also so afraid of trusting people. I've been kicked out of so many people's lives that Im so afraid of growing close to people, which makes it hard for me to love. I know a lot of people have these problems, id like to know if anyone knows how to snap out of it and make it stop

Yeah I have trusting issues but I recently tried to get over them with my wife. I've been with my wife for 7 years and never fully trusted her until recently. Sooner or later you have just to find someone of whom you think has the highest possibility of not breaking your trust or betraying you and just go all out with them. I don't think I'll ever get fully over it though. My trust is easily broken and nobody will ever get it back once it is broken.

... well I dunno really... cause for me, it was a "new guy" that made the pain and the memories of my bad boyfriends dissapear!! if I were you...I wouldn't worry about love at the moment... just continue living life to the fullest and hanging out with your girls!! when you least expect it...love will come finding you!! - and at first...if you're not ready...be honest and tell him... if the guy truly likes you and diggs you...he'll try to gain his trust to show that he's for real!! =) hope you'll find your true love!!

I had this same problem... until just two weeks ago... for me, the only way I snapped out of it was to find someone who I KNEW for a fact I could trust... and now I feel great about the whole trusting people thing... because since I have ONE person to put my trust in... I don't need to be able to trust anyone else.

thanks!
yeah I've been hurt by guys
but also by family and mostly, people who I believed were friends
so I feel that when I hang out with people, I can't open up because no matter how long it takes, they'll turn against me and use the info they have on me against me

Yeah, family, friends and army brought it upon me as well. Now it just hard for me even to tell close friends something they somehow might be able to use against me.

yeah its hard for me to even trust my boyfriend or best friend and even family
after trust is broke it is hard to get it back hope you feel better remmeber you can
talk to me ok and trust me

I have the same problems it seems like every time you allow yourself to open up to someone they just leave. I've lost a lot of guys, friends, family not treating me good. The best thing is just to not open up to fast with anyone. take your time to get to know them a lot before you allow yourself to open up and trust them.

guys are asses