How do you know if your husband still loves you?

Hi how are you?how do you know if your husband really loves you?I know we have talk before,but I will be married 9 years and my husband has put me through so much,abuse,talking down to me,pushing around in front of the boys,he wasnt this way when we were dating,he became this way after the boys were born,here we are almost 9 yaers later he always says he gone change,but has not,im very unhappy with this,and I fine myself wanting to be with someone elese who is very kind and sweet to me,a.m.g.

Dump him. If you think that therapy will work. It won't. I mean, it's like REALLY rare for therpay to work. But you might want to try it and if in a few months or weeks (depending on how bad his abuse is) it doesn't work, then dump him.

Okay all you need to do is talk to him and if he doesnt change leave him and put in a court order for your kids, dont just take off and take your kids cause he can call the police and charge you with house abandonment charges and kidnapping. In court charge him for domestic vilonce and you will get the custody of your kids.
hope this helped
karina