Is my boyfriend a virgin? (continued)

I dont plan on our relationship being a fling... I dont do flings!I've never felt this way about someone before so im not to worried about him gettin attached... its not that im worried about him gettin attached because he already is like I am ... im worried about he becoming overprotective and abusive. the reason why I worry for this is because its happened to me twice before in past relationships and at such a young age I dont want to be going through an abusie relationship. I love this boy so much and I dont want nothing to change. And no I dont think any less off him ... I was just a bit confused about why it had all happened and why he said what he did... now I understand a clearer. Do you think he will become abusive or overprotective like my past two long term relationships???

Follow your instincts hun. If he seems like bad news he probably is. If he seems like a good boyfriend then hang on to him. You can't run your relationships on what ifs, you have to have a little faith in him.

If you are his first then you get to teach him the ropes. He probably said what he did for fear that you'd think he'd become "clingy and attached" or push some virgin stereotype on him that would hinder your relationship.