How can i get them to believe i've been raped?

what should you do if you have been getting raped for years and you keep on tellin people bout it and they believe u @ first but then your family keeps on tellin them that your lying,and the police have been involved?

sorry to hear that they dont blieve you but i think you need to give a call to social services or child protection lines (whichever relates to you).. however i think that you need to convince your family that you are telling the truth, and if still they dont believe then i think that you should go to the police.

if you are still being abused, dont rid of he evidence such as clothing or have a shower or something like that because they can then run tests on you and use those items as evidence.. if you can try and get an audit recording when you think that your abuser will attempt again, such as a mobile phone recording etc. i hope i've helped in any way, please let me know if theres anything else i can do; and please consider and act upon the advice given to you by other users.

Y does ur family keep tellin them ur liein its not fair on ya .. u should go tothe police urself hun x x

Hidden camera capturing abuse is undeniable evidence.

Try telling a teacher or something. Go to the doctor and let them check it out. Then get the police invovled I'm sure who ever your doctor is will call them any ways.

Good Luck

yeah i agree, go to the police yourself, get the creep raping you away from you.

Dear da1bumchick,
You must go to children's protective services..that's what they are there for. You must do this now. I am very sorry that you have not be believed. By going and getting help for yourself you will no doubt help someone else who could be in the same situation you are in. Do it for yourself and do it for the others.
Sue..good luck

hello this is your family they should just belive you

Ok hunni contact social services-they will not ignore an aligation as serious as this! Contact the NSPCC at http://ww.nspcc.org.uk/helpandadvice or contact Childline at 0800 1111 this number is free and will not show up on your telephone bill.
Sorry I din't answer your question sooner as you asked-I have been ill for awhile and not able to sit for long times.
If you need anyone to talk to who knows how this kind of thing feels I am always here for you ok hunni! x

First of all congratulations for coming forward. That is a really hard thing to do. Sxual abuse and r-ape within the family is more common than most people think and many times it gets swept under the rug. I was r-aped and sxually abused from age 4 to age 19 by my step father along with my twin sister. Me and my sister reported it to the police 3 years ago. The wheels of justice turn slowly, but they ARE turning.

You can contact RAINN ( R-ape, Abuse and Incest National Network)
You can call the National Sxual Assault Hotline, operated by RAINN, 24 hours a day at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), or you can search for your local r-ape crisis center.
http://tools.rainn.org/counseling-centers/index.html

Feel free to funmail me anytime. I know of a few good books that can help you through things with triggers.

damn..okay i know just how you feel!! i think you may need to try to tell you'r family one agin and if they still dont believe you then i think you may have to go to a girl's home!! that's just if that preson is still livein with you'll !! if not then for get you'r family but if he still is then go to the police and then go to a girl's home or to you'r best friend's house and tell them you'r story and see what will happen but that's what i would do!! you can try it too, but if thing's dont work out good then fun mail me agin!!

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Obviously you don't have the support of your family or they just pretended to be at first until you got the police involved. Sounds to me that the person who has been raping you is a member of the family or a close friend of the family. If the police haven't found any evidence and you haven't taken a rape kit to prove otherwise, and you don't have the support of the family and no one believes you at this point your basically a discredited witness and victim and that case won't go no further than a one time court proceeding. If there is nothing else you feel you can do and the court finds this person not guilty, I would definitely leave your town and your family and start your new life elsewhere. When your family turns their back on you they aren't your real family.

WOW BABY YOU GOTTA TALK TO SOMEONE QUICK ABOUT THIS SITUATATION! ITS ONLY GOING TOG GET WORSE AND YOUR GOING TO FEEL SOME TYPE OF WAY ABOUT THIS ALL IN ALLL! IF YOU WANT ME TO I CAN GET SOMEONE TO HELP YOU FOR SURE! YOUR TOO YOUNG TO BE GOING THREW WITH THIS!

they still dont believe you I hate people that don't take you seriouly you need to tell like really close friend or like your older sister

Oh my gosh I'm so sorry,yes you really need to talk to somebody before it gets much worse.if you ever need to talk just fun mail me.

FIRST OF ALL CALL DSS THEY WON'T IGNORE IT TRUST ME I've BEEN THROUGH THAT ALREADY WOULD YOU BE MY FRIEND

ohhh h 8ll no!!! call the cops on his a 8s!!! now!!! call the cops.

PLEASE GET OUT OF THERE. Anything is better than being a prisoner in a dangerous situation. I would find a way to escape and or do what petro1 said and put up a camera in your room or something. Please get out!!!

YOU WERE RAPED? SO SORRY. YOU COULD GO TO THE HOSPITAL TO COFIRM BEFORE TAKING ACTION. LIKE TINKERBRITT SAID , PUT A CAMERA IN THE ROOM. TRY YOUR BEST TO ESCAPE

I feel sooo bad 4 u! but tell the police, parents or go 2 the doctor 2 get a test cause that is very serious!!! good luck!!!

I really think you should call the kids help phone 1-800-668-6868
thats a complete injustice and im sure you must be really hurt by everything thats happening, im so sorry
by calling them they'll give you a mature answer on how to handle the situation,
the best I can tell you is tape it, and show your parents
or sit down with them and be very serious and persuade them until they understand whats happening

best of luck 3