Rabecca

my best friend rebbeca tried to kill herself a few weeks ago and I have no idea why if you've seen any of the other questions I'v asked you'll know I have quite a mistery on my hands but I don't know mutch I know this
1. becca cuts herself
2.she hates her parents
3.she's always deprest
4.she wont get help herself
5.she needs help
6.she has a temper
7.some nights she comes to my house crying an wont tell me whats wrong
can anyone help me figure out whats wrong with my best friend

It is actually very simple. I have tried to kill myself in the past. I didn't want to actually die I just could not handle the stress I was going through and the only way I knew I could free myself was if I slit my wrists. You see when someone tries to kill themselves it is a cry for help. You say she hates her parents. So why does she hate her parents. Depression is one of the many side affects of feeling hurt inside. One thing you need to makes sure you do NOT do is that you never Yell at her or put her down for trying to kill herself. Many times people will tell someone that they are being immature for killing themself, they do not mean to put the person down they only wish to stop them from doing whatever it is that they do. That never works. The best thing you can do for your friend is let her know that your there for her. Also when someone cuts themself it is a way of expressing the pain she has inside. I know that when I had cut myself it was the only way I could get rid of the pain I was feeling inside. To feel the pain of a cut takes your mind away from the real problem. One thing you can do is always be positive even when she's not. Let her know that before the problem gets so bad that she wants to go to the level of killing herself that she can stay at your house. I understand that it might not seem probable but when someone feels that way it means taking drastic chances to save their life.

The Only thing I can tell you is Be A True Friend to HEr Because you know deep dow she is a good persona dn a friend and If you really enjoy her around you need too talk to your parenst about helping her because you may never know when she will actually take her life...She may hate you for tellign but later on she will thank you for all that you have done for her.....Hope all is good.