How to have an org**m?

I have never had an orgasim, and I really want to... My husband is determined to give me one, however I've read that many women only have them when mas*erb*ting... So my first question is- Can anyone give me any tips on how to give myself one or how to get my husband to give me one... also- if any tips on any adult toys to buy- that would be great.
My second question is- My husband had a video on his cell phone of a girl having an orgasim- she's mas*erb*ting with a dildo, and when she has an orgasim- it shoots out... .almost like she's peeing- Is that normally how it works?

The first order of business is to get yourself cumming. There are lots of different kinds of sex toys out there but the one that seems to be getting the most raves is something called the Eroscillator. It's quite expensive though. Maybe a normal vibrator would work for you. By something that you can stimulate the clitoris with. The dildo vibrators are rarely any use but it can be fun to have them for insertion.

Re. the girl squirting - not all women do that, and the jury is still out on exactly what that fluid is and where it comes from. There's an excellent web site you should check out - it's called http://www.the-clito... and has tons of info on women's sexuality.

okay. tell him to stick 2 fingers in you and curve them upwards. the spongy hting he is feeling is called the g spot. he could flick this until you orgas-m, or he could play with your clit, the little bump right above your hole, and tap it and rub it until you get wet. if he does the g spot thing after you're wet fro mclit play, the o will be great. you might want to try to play with yourself in private before trying to do it in front of you husband. fun mail me and let me know if this helped

Well, if I were your husband I would try to find some other men maybe you could c*m with them.

go on the shower ... take a bath and lay down and just start playing with your clit rub it it may take awhile but you will notice that it starts to feel real good then you start to feel your body like shake uncontrolable and then you have had and org**m

Thank you all for your responses...

bubux007- May I ask... Why would my husband want to find me another man???- I've been with others besides my husband (before I was married)... it's not just him

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