Question regarding massager use, sex question

Hi,

I'm 21 and I'm a virgin. I decided to get a g-spot stimulator. I applied lots of lube and everything fit in fine until I accidentally pulled it out. I thought there was enough wetness for me to push it back in, but suddenly the lower muscles of my...

vaginal passage started to contract and seize up. I was able to put a finger in without any problems but there was still a sharp stinging around the lower part of the muscle. I was wondering what it was that happened because it was terribly frightening... Is it possible that I will experience this when I actually have sex? Because I don't think penetration will be possible under such conditions.

you weren't relaxed enough. sometimes with a toy you're nervous and what not..it'll happen. Do this...go get...for lack of a better term, butt lube. It's thicker and it's good to use when you're trying a new toy for the first time...

also consider the fact that you may have broken your hymen...or you're just a bit more narrow. Either way...go slowly and RELAX...ok? the toy isn't going to bite you or anything and you just have to get used to it. you'll be fine. never go to quickly or push to hard...

as odd as this sounds try inserting the toy and letting your body get used to it without moving it too much. relax, and then try to get a steady, gentle pace going first, alright? good luck sweetie.