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Question on becoming a godfather

Our Cat Asked by vickylaw about 1 year ago, 6 answers.

Ok, so I was asked to be a godfather the other day to one of my friends kids and I accepted. but im an athiest, never been baptised. now I know this use to be a problem, but would it still be a problem today. and if so, would it be an insult to get...

baptised for that reason alone. knowing in full that I don't believe in that sh*t.

How far we have come... Answered by jimahl on Jun 16, 2008, 12:57PM
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If your friend is catholic, then technically you can't be a godparent of a catholic. If you have not received catholic baptism, communion and confirmation, you are not eligible.

I am an athiest, and I am a godfather twice. Since the only part I was concerned about was the honor of doing it, and the religious aspect of was meaningless to me, I had to fib on a form saying I am a practicing catholic, although I did have all the sacraments. The kids were my wife's great niece and nephew, and she would have killed me if I didn't do it! The parents knew my beliefs, and they had no problem, since my wife still practices.

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Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jun 16, 2008, 02:00PM
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Yes, I hope you don't have to lie, but to be honest, if the parents are happy to choose you knowing your beliefs, I think their wishes are the most important thing. Godparents are to support the child. Christian parents will include spiritual support/prayer in that, but other parents will look more at the practical support and encouragement you can give the child. If they know what you believe and they want you to be a godfather, I think that's all that matters.

:] Answered by mrscobainx3 on Jun 16, 2008, 12:27PM
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Id ask the parents what they think.
They may not be offened that you are an ahthiest.
I think it would depend on them.

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Toadaly Answered by toadaly on Jun 16, 2008, 12:38PM
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Is your friend Catholic? I think they may be the only ones who formalize the godparent role. If so, then as long as your friend knows you're atheist and is ok with you lying about your beleifs to the priest, then you could be a godfather. The important part would be making sure your friend knows.

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Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jun 16, 2008, 01:10PM
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nah dun wurry bout it dude, mah friend corleone was 1. so I know what m sayin. long live da mafia.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jun 16, 2008, 02:45PM
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In some cultures, the word for godparent of one's child is used for any, or certain, very close friends.

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