How to have feelings and good sex after marriage?

I recently got married on November 17, 2007. Since after our first night, I have never seen my husband happy from me. He is never happy. Once he disclosed that he doesn't enjoy sex with me. When I tried to inquire further, he told that the hair on my breast make him feel having sex with a man. There are light hair on my breasts, but these hair are not very dark. My problem is, I can't wax them because I get acne if I do so. For his pleasure I have cut the hair and they don't look prominent now. But my husband still doesn't enjoy sex with me. The same problem is with me. I also don't enjoy sex with him. Previously, I was also involved with a guy who cheated me and didn't marry me. I never had intercouse with him, but I enjoyed kissing and touching and rubbing with him and he enjoyed the same activities on me as well. Please note, previously my husband was involved with a girl, but he left her for me. Please note, we are relatives and it is an arranged marriage.I know about the affair of my husband but he doesn't know aobut mine

Kindly advise what should we do to have org**m during intercourse and how we can have feelings for each others.

If you find a "cosmetic medical doctor" he (she?) may remove your hair by laser technique for good and all (forever). But I am not sure about that this will solve your all problems with your husband. But for first step it is good, I think.

I would find ways to get him to enjoy sex w/you. Ask him what he likes for a woman to do to his body, ask him where he likes to be touched. Most men like to be French kissed, it arouses them big time, so ask him if he likes to French kiss then slide your wet tongue down his throat and get him started and then maybe he will see you in a different light.

Dear manal,
Arranged marriages are difficult. There can be much resentment and heartache especially when you are interested in someone else. It seems your husband left another for you because of the arrangement of your marriage. I am not too familiar with your culture so all I can say is being made to marry someone is difficult, being in love with another and then having to marry some one else would be very difficult. Perhaps eventually you both will learn to love one another...but in the mean time you must understand why he has a problem being sexual and romantic . It isn't about the hair or your chest or love making style it is about not loving the person you are forced to be with. I don't know if your culture considers counselling but this would be a good place to start.
Sue...good luck