Question for women

Ok, this is for the ladies. I am recently divorced but we get along great and both love each other. What would you want me to do to win you back if you were in my ex wife's shoes? I am looking 4 honest answers that are as detailed as possible please. Thanks...What2do

There is no way to win her back, unless SHE wants to come back. Why did you get divorced in the first place, and who initiated it? If you get along better as exes, maybe you need to just stay that way. I mean, you got divorced for a reason...

Well first to challenge what "angelfire2708" said It not about winning her back but to betterunderstand why you got divorced in the first place. It's NOT who initiated it! because you dont play the blame game.

Now if your comfortable with being ex's then by all means you should push it too far to be together again.
HONESTLY, to answer your question...

I would want to know what went wrong, why we couldn't communicate, and compromise to fix this. Sometime me and my fiance' get into it...and when we calm down we know that we are human so we ARE going to make mistakes and a few bad desicions. We love one another and we want to stay together so we compromise(you have to give a little to get a little ). What ever the case may be, maybe both of you guys need patience.

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^^djsweets^^ >>Divorce isnt a blame game. Whoever wanted it, did it for whatever reasons, not because they "blame" the other person. She's an ex-wife for a reason. If he didnt want it, then he should have tried to stop her.

This isnt about you, its about you & her. Just because you want her back, doesnt mean she wants you back. Maybe you need to approach her on how you feel, and see how she feels. Thats about all you can do, There is NO magic potion, or spell that can make her do something she doesnt want to do.

Take her on a date as friends to try to sort out the next part of your life, then while your there and everythings going great tell her how you still want to be with her.
It's pretty much all you can do.
Also try to get the spark back in the relationship people dont like it when there significant other gets stale on them. keep thingss fun and exciting and as romantic as possible.
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I recently left my fiance of 8 years...we have 2 kids together. in my opinion, you probably can't get her back if it's gone as far as divorce. it took a lot for me to actually pack up my stuff and leave because I was so worried about the kids, how he would pay for the house, what my life would be like without him...from personal experience, there is nothing he COULD do to get me back. I've had to do too much to get this far and I wouldn't undo everything it took to get me where I am now.