Sex question 4 guys: when did you stop...?

Im asking this question for guys but I wouldnt mind hearing what chicks have to say lol
But when did you stop having sex like a little boy and start doing something for real! You know more than like the in and out... Im getting what I want 5 minute crap?? And when you did decide to take it to the next level (if you have) what made you decide to do that? If you havent took it to the next level yet, what are you waiting on! What is it going to take for you to take it to the next level and actually be doing something good?
I also would like to know ages... Thanks in advance

 
It's all about communication! You need to communicate with your partner in order to get things 'to the next level'. Neither partner can 'guess' what satisfies the other. Communicate!