What if I feel distant in our relationship?

okay so I have been going out with my girlfriend for 11 months. We use to always talk and hang out a lot. my girlfriend and I are really close she knows everything about me and I know everything about her. an inside about my girlfriend is that she suffers from a depression disorder. Now I go to college and she is still in high school. She comes and visit me once every month and I come home and see her. we talk on the phone a bit and everything is going swell. We did break up for three weeks and during those three weeks we still talked to eachother on the phone. We still talked to other put about about eachother. But recently we have not really talked on the phone. We have talked for only 1 hour this past month on the phone. We talked more to eachother when we were broken up. I have been home for 2 weeks because I have month of from school. we have only hung out for three hours out of those two weeks. everytime I want to hang out with her she always say oh "one of her friends name" wanted to hang out today. She says she still loves me and everything. When we hung out she still kept grabbing my hand and everything but she cut it short because she had to go to a cooking party with her friends. Everytime I talk to her about something that about our relationship she starts to cry. I also talked to her once bout how much we hang out and she answer: What am I suppose to suddenly stop my life and hang out with you since you are back from college?

Also one time when she was at college with me she was texting this one guy from back home a lot and the guy she was texting was interested in her. I know that they went out to get some coffee to get know each other.

She always talks about what she wants to do with me.
she also wants to go to cancun with me over spring break

She has told me that she loves me and that she wishes she can show it better.
I really love her but I dont know what is up.
When I talk to her about our relationship she crys
She never really wants to do anything pyshical anymore other than just kiss.

What shoud I Do?

Well... it sounds like you really do love her, but things just aren't working out right now. It also sounds like she may have some maturity problems. Tell her that a relationship takes sacrifices on both sides, and if she isn't even willing to set some time aside for you (when she can be with her friends all the times when you are at school) then obviously the relationship doesn't mean as much to her as it does to you. Also, it seems that there's something to that text messaging and the fact that she won't see you. I hate to say it, and obviously you can take this as you like, but it sounds like she is cheating on you. I'm away at college and I talk to my boyfriend like 3 times a day on the phone and am with him practically every weekend. I dont know how far away you are so that might not be possible. However, a phone call isnt asking too much. Don't take the depression or whatever as an excuse because I have it (and I know many others that do)and don't behave like she it. It really does sound like she is cheating. Honestly, I think you should tell her that you are in school for your future and as of right now, you cannot deal with this stress in your life. Perhaps when she grows up a little and is willing to make some sacrifices for you to show her love,then you can have a relationship. Good luck!