Why does she get so mad if I make plans with friends?

so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year. things were going great at first...my problem now is she never gives me free time or time to do stuff with my friends. she goes out with her friends time to time and its fine. but if I make plans with mine she always gets mad. another big problem is I farm...so as you can guess have very little free time except for winter. and I have to work. my dad is really sick and have to support my family. I just dont know what to do. should I just end it...or just talk about it with her again...like we have many times before and just keep dealing with it

Well there's two ways about this problem:

#1: is that you break up with her for the simple fact that you both are not happy with the circumstances and they don't seem to be changing anytime soon because right now you're using your free time for the farm and never get to hang out with your friends and barely get to hang out with her so you're responsbilities are above your age level. She most likely understands your situation and that's why she's staying around and of course she likes you and all. But you going off with your friends with as little free time as you have, she just wants to be with you during your free time because of course she really likes you. She's frustrated and you're frustrated.

#2 You pretty much tell your friends that you're too busy to hang out with them very much and spend most of your free time with your girlfriend but of course she has to sacrafice something to make you happy since you're sacraficing something very important to you (NOTE: this is only if you think this girl might be the one if not go with #1). This one goes against "Bros before Hoes" but hey that doesn't apply to wives lol.

ok from a girls point of view.. my boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 months and he works a lot and we only get to hang out maybe 2-3 times a week and one day he told me that he wanted to hang out with his friends for a day instead of with me and I was pissed off and upset because I felt really rejected and I get scared everytime he hangs out with them because none of them even approve of me (aka im not a slut who wants to have sex all the time), and also because some of them have cheated on their girlfriends in the past and im scared that they might be a bad influence on him. and another example is I just made him quit smoking about 3 months ago because he has been smoking a pack and a half a day since he was 11 and now he is 18, I made him quit mainly because I want him healthy and because I find it gross to kiss him. his 18th birthday is when he quit and we were all sleeping over a friends house and he asked me to go outside with him and he handed me his cigarettes and told me to break them in half and throw them in the street so I did it and he hasnt smoked since.. but ALL of his friends do and I find it to be bad for him. and I feel awful about getting so mad.. but when I worry so much about him its hard. sorry that was so long but hopefully this can help you understand.